Am I gay?

The question first rose to myself when I would masturbate and I would get this sensation in my **** when I would masturbate. After a while I began touching myself there when I would masturbate and it felt really good and soon moved onto penetrating myself with my fingers, and then objects and toys like dildos.

I began watching gay porn and got turned on by the fact of being penetrated by another guy and I would always watch the man's penis instead of the woman when I would watch regular porn. So one night I went to craigslist and met a guy and we met up and I had sex with him in his car.

It felt good, but I wasn't excited as I thought I'd be because I got turned off by the traits of a normal guy. Hairy, deeper voice, rough skin, muscly. And it made me realize that I'm not attracted to men physically, other than the penis. I don't get turned on by looking at men like I do woman. In fact, I find men almost repulsive looking. I don't think guys are hot or sexy like I think woman are. I could never imagine myself being in a relationship with a guy or having a guy as a lover.

I've always been very attracted to strap on sex (being penetrated by a woman wearing a strap on dildo) since I first discovered. Just thinking about a beautiful, scantily clad woman (she doesn't even have to be beautiful!) wearing a strap on getting ready to do me makes me go CRAZY!!!! This is a huge fantasy of mine and I can only hope that my future wife would be into doing it. And I say wife because like I said, there's no way I could marry a guy or be involved with a guy.

I'm still a virgin (haven't actually had vaginal intercourse with a woman, I'm 22 years old btw) I have made out with a girl before and she gave me a blow job and I fingered her, but that's about it. And I loved it a lot. Way more so than sex with the guy that I did.

With this information, am I gay? Am I bi-sexual? Or am I just kinky cause I like my **** being played with cause it feels good?

If you are not attracted to men then you are not gay. Being attracted to a woman wearing a strap-on means you are a straight man with a fetish. No problem there. My advice is don't bring that up the first few times you have sex with a woman. You are going to have to ease into that one. You describe your attraction to a woman's body very thouroughly. I have no doubt that you are straight.

Go out, date women.

It sounds like you should try sex with a woman as that would alleviate your fears.

You might have bisexual tendencies but it seems that you prefer women. IMO, heterosexual sex appears best for you.

I don't think that makes you gay. In other countries out side of the USA, it is not uncommon practice for a man to have sex with another man. Not because he likes men but because women are for creating children with. Sex w/ men to "Alleviate Stress", sex with your wife because you love her or want children w/ her. You did not like sex w/ a man, you obviously like women. Gay I think not. Fetish certainly. Like **** stimulation, thats acceptable for a man w/ out making you gay. After finding the right woman and having intercourse your opinion may change. Don't rush a relationship just to find out. Take your time. Find the right girl and she may be open to this. "YOU NEVER KNOW." I've been married 18 years to the same man. "YOU NEVER KNOW"

Thank you guys for your input! It makes me feel a lot more certain about myself : )

Thank you all for your input! It makes me feel much more certain about ,myself : )

Yeah I agree. I don't think your gay either. Just a man who enjoys **** penetration, I'm not sure but I think there is porn that targets this audience. Women who penetrate men with strap-ons is not as uncommon as you think. Try watching that and see if that does anything for you. Good luck!

I also agree that you just have a fetish for **** sex and are not gay, but you might want to think about if you like the idea because you are submissive, or like to bottom instead of top. If that is the case, I would suggest looking for more dominant women that want a submissive partner. She would also most likely be more open to things like strap-ons and penetrating you.
I hope you find the woman (or man if things change) that you're looking for~

I would say you're mostly heterosexual but do have some bi-sexual tendencies as someone else mentioned.

It is called pegging. I thought I saw a post here from a woman who was looking for a man who is into pegging and under 28 years old. I don't know how common it is, but I suspect that in the right circles it could make you very popular. You never know.

Very popular indeed! I know a lot of kinky men but very few who are into receiving **** with a strap on. To contrast, I know several kinky women who are into pegging men.

Stellato, doesn't sound like you're gay but others will wonder the same way you are wondering now.