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View Poll Results: Which breasts do you prefer?
Small 4 16.67%
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4 16.67%
Big 9 37.50%
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I do not care 11 45.83%
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Default Nov 22, 2012 at 12:23 AM
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Unlike male packages, bigger breasts are not functionally "better" in any way. It is not that they can push harder or give a fuller feeling in the vagina. Indeed, I have once read in one Indian online newspaper that smaller breasts are more sensitive. Do not know if there is truth to it.

So the oft-cited preference for bigger breasts which manifests itself in the fact that there are far more breast "enhancement" surgeries than breast reduction surgeries seems irrational.

Hence, my question.

I cannot post without voting and I am a woman so I will vote on esthethic merits only and I prefer bigger breasts but I occasionally like small-breasted Asian women. Since I go for larger breasted more often, there goes my vote.
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Default Nov 22, 2012 at 05:21 AM
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In terms of aesthtics its a matter of proportion and shape. Mila Jolavich and Gwen Steffani for example are very svelte women whose smaller breasts work with their shape. Kristina Hendrix on the other hand is a very voluptous and curvy lady who happens to be very naturally busty, also very pretty in her way. Same could be said of Nikki Minaj who as ample assets so to speak.

I am not personally not a fan of over done silicon, especially when its obvious and they look like basketballs.

In many cases smaller breasts are more sensitive to touch, and I know a lot of "bigger" women are not comfortable having theirs given attention (just from some conversations I have had in the past) but that too is really an individual thing.
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Not that bothered as long as there's something there. I don't like a completely flat chest that would be unattractive. If a had to choose between a fat women with large breasts or a slim women with small ones, then I'd choose the slim women.

If there was two slim near identical twins and one had small breasts and one had big breasts, I'd go for the latter. Overall though breasts size is not something I care much about. Face, *** and legs I look for first over breasts.
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Default Nov 22, 2012 at 12:47 PM
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Shape counts more than size. Natural tends to be better than augmented.

These days a lot of men have their own breasts; I used to hear people joke that if men had their own breasts they would never leave home. It just isn't the same. I think shape is one of the biggest differences, when taken completely out of context. Although sometimes I really don't know just looking at the breasts if I am seeing a man or a woman. One time back when I was living in an apartment complex I was reaching out the window to fill a birdfeeder when I noticed that the top of the chest area of a person was in my direct line of sight. I even saw nipple and I still couldn't tell you if it was male or female. The shape was just too ambiguous.

And I agree that large breasts are not as much fun when the stomach sticks out farther than they do.
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Default Nov 22, 2012 at 01:11 PM
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Maybe I'm old fashioned, bit big, small or medium, breasts would not determine who I was attracted to. They are just part of the package. Besides, even if the woman has beautifully shaped breasts, eventually, like everything else, they will succumb to age. Initial attraction for me is smell ( as in clean, light perfume), eyes and personality. I do like shapely legs however.

Size of breasts and size of male packages really are the same when you think about it. Both are things that men and women are conscious about, both cause anxiety if the man or woman feel their own parts are somehow not adequate, and neither one are a good indicator of what sort of partner the owner of said parts will be.

If all you want is sex and nothing else, I suppose it would matter. If you are looking for something beyond that, its a poor place to start. In any case, if a woman feels that she has to add to her size for a guy, perhaps he isn't worth pursuing.

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Default Nov 22, 2012 at 01:38 PM
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Medium size is the best. I view my breasts as a nice feature, but I cannot imagine having the oversize breasts that some of my friends have to carry around. There must be a happy medium between being flat chested and having over sized basketballs
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It isn't even an issue. Breast size is not something I would use as a criteria for choosing a lover/mate. It isn't even something I'd pay attention to seriously regarding attraction.
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Yes I actually like a mate with a big heart who's kind to me and doesn't stomp on souls with their deeds. We're more than big/small breasts or varied sizes of male parts. There are bigger worries in life than sex. Society makes us feel inferior enough therefore I stay away from categorizing people based on size of parts. The biggest turn on, is a person who's kind and cares deeply for me.

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Default Nov 22, 2012 at 04:55 PM
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We all know that a relationship should not be based on the size of a person's body parts. That isn't the point of a thread like this. This is just taking into account one aspect - and asking if you have a preference.
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Unlike male packages, bigger breasts are not functionally "better" in any way. It is not that they can push harder or give a fuller feeling in the vagina. Indeed, I have once read in one Indian online newspaper that smaller breasts are more sensitive. Do not know if there is truth to it.

So the oft-cited preference for bigger breasts which manifests itself in the fact that there are far more breast "enhancement" surgeries than breast reduction surgeries seems irrational.

Hence, my question.

I cannot post without voting and I am a woman so I will vote on esthethic merits only and I prefer bigger breasts but I occasionally like small-breasted Asian women. Since I go for larger breasted more often, there goes my vote.
Wonderful, so I am throwing out one vote for big, one vote for small and we are basically left with only "I do not care" which is pretty much what I expected because, say, my ex husband, when he was young, liked both small and big and I find it understandable, similar to my liking men with and without beards.

But if the overwhelming majority of people do not give a damn, how do you explain the popularity of "breast enhancement" surgeries and the spam offering "breast enhancement" creams, potions, and other products that cannot possibly work? If people do not care, there should not be demand for enhancement, right? That demand for penis enhancement exists is rational - women in their majority prefer bigger endowments as we have seen on a thread with 600+ views which is a lot for this small forum; that demand for breast enhancement exists, beyond that from women with literally no breast tissue, seems irrational.
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Default Nov 24, 2012 at 08:56 PM
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The only reason I voted for not caring was because I think size doesn't matter as much as shape. Otherwise I think I prefer larger - just not to the point where they are completely unnatural and they no longer look like breasts.
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Default Nov 24, 2012 at 09:04 PM
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I read somewhere that the average breast size in America is a D cup. I'm guessing it's due to the popularity of breast implants or the obesity epidemic in America. I am not gay or bi but I prefer bigger breasts that are proportionate to body size. Meaning I dislike two melons attached to a twig as much as I dislike two melons attached to an extremely obese woman.
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If average is a D, it's probably because obesity is rampant in the US and big boobs are more prevalent in over-weight woman.

HB, there should definately been a "Medium" in your poll. I think that would have been your winner had it been there.

I think the reason for so much advertisement for "Fixing" small breasts is just because there is money to be made on people with self esteem issues. You know how much spam I get for penis enlargement methods?
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We all know that a relationship should not be based on the size of a person's body parts. That isn't the point of a thread like this. This is just taking into account one aspect - and asking if you have a preference.
Although it may be just question of preference, it obviously touched a nerve with several people. That is probably why the question is not getting very many simple answers.

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So in addition to my suggestion of (#) shape counts more than size, I now also suggest (#) this question makes me too uncomfortable. The exact wording doesn't matter. I don't know if we actually need a new poll or not; the question may have already been answered anyway.
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So what about a skinny girl with large breasts?

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Unlike male packages, bigger breasts are not functionally "better" in any way. It is not that they can push harder or give a fuller feeling in the vagina. Indeed, I have once read in one Indian online newspaper that smaller breasts are more sensitive. Do not know if there is truth to it.

So the oft-cited preference for bigger breasts which manifests itself in the fact that there are far more breast "enhancement" surgeries than breast reduction surgeries seems irrational.

Hence, my question.

I cannot post without voting and I am a woman so I will vote on esthethic merits only and I prefer bigger breasts but I occasionally like small-breasted Asian women. Since I go for larger breasted more often, there goes my vote.
So every lady who is insecure about being less than generously endowed in this department should go watch the new movie Anna Karenina starring Keira Knightley to see all her lingering insecurities disappear once and for all.

In the book, Anna has a voluptuous figure and her shoulders are round and even a little fat. She is hardly flat chested.

Keira is the most flat chested actress in Hollywood.

Before the movie, if someone asked me to rank Hollywood actresses as potential candidates for the part, Keira would have come in last.

Clearly, someone far smarter than I am has cast her in that role, and she is simply splendid. She shines. And proves that a beautiful face and an acting talent are all a girl really needs, and who cares about the figure - nobody does. She is very believable and you forget that her physique does not match the expectations set by the text.

It is a good movie overall, with great actors and actresses in leading and supporting roles, and I highly recommend it.
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I don't know if I'd like Anna Karenina or not. It's one of those movies that pulls you in deeply, and I always feel wrung out after them. However, I agree, Keira Knightly is a great actress, and I noticed she had a flat chest a long time ago. I forget what movie it was, but she did a movie and whoever created the movie poster added some size to her breasts, and she was not happy with that.

I like having big breasts, but I want their young, natural and beautiful shape back. Sagging sucks. I prefer real breasts to fake ones, but what do you do when you can't get the real ones back to the way they were?

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I don't know if I'd like Anna Karenina or not. It's one of those movies that pulls you in deeply, and I always feel wrung out after them. However, I agree, Keira Knightly is a great actress, and I noticed she had a flat chest a long time ago. I forget what movie it was, but she did a movie and whoever created the movie poster added some size to her breasts, and she was not happy with that.

I like having big breasts, but I want their young, natural and beautiful shape back. Sagging sucks. I prefer real breasts to fake ones, but what do you do when you can't get the real ones back to the way they were?
In this movie, they did not do anything to her breasts but during the filming of the erotic scenes the camera carefully avoided her chest. And yes, I did see Keira with an "enhanced" look on an advertisement for Mademoiselle (a perfume from Chanel, I believe).

Maven, good bras at least restore the youthful shape of big breasts so 99% of people think that they are in a beautiful shape. At least that is what I have come to accept. Only a tiny percentage of people I know will ever see me naked and know that they sag.
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