How do i raise libido to meet gf's demands?

Dec 30, 2012 at 04:00 AM

hi it's me again and after chatting to some ppl i get the same reaction, that there is something wrong with me, physically and I need to boost my libido

How is this done? I know that Viagra isn't an option, it only increases performance, and i have no issue with that.

Inedible · Dec 30, 2012 at 04:05 AM

L-arginine is an amino acid. 3-5 grams / day on an empty stomach with water.

Exercise 3-5 times per week. Weight training is probably your best bet for boosting testosterone and thereby increasing libido. You can get similar muscle building effects from isometric exercises using body weight only and props like walls and tables.

Dec 30, 2012 at 04:13 AM

what is l-arginine in?

dbadams · Dec 30, 2012 at 05:14 AM

You can find it at any GNC, I know for sure. Im older than my wife and her sex drive is through the roof and mine is comfortably taking a nap on the floor. I started using GNC vitamin packs for sexual performance. It takes a bit to work, around four weeks for me, but it definitely helps. She now calls them my penis pills. Haha!

Good luck!

Dec 30, 2012 at 06:14 AM

What's GNC?

Inedible · Dec 30, 2012 at 08:25 AM

It is a sports nutrition store.

I actually get a lot of my vitamins and protein powder (whey protein) and supplements from my local grocery store.

L-arginine, in large doses, triggers production of growth hormone. It is also very good for your circulatory system. And excess is used to make nitric oxide. This doesn't sound very good in that nitric oxide tends to be a poisonous brown gas, but it also happens to be good for your circulatory system. It has side effects such as increased libido and in weight lifting terms it is anabolic: it helps you to add muscle mass.

dbadams · Dec 30, 2012 at 08:53 AM

Thanks inedible. I didn't even know how it worked; great explanation!

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katya093 · Dec 30, 2012 at 03:14 PM

ah i can relate LOL -
so i am 19 and my bf is
quit a bit older (shucks)
but my sex drive is crazy high and
his is low to a point were it bothers the crap out of me .
-
things that lower your sex drive
- stress
certain enviorments ( make you nervous , or stressed )
anger
not enough protein
- not enough physical activity

THINGS that boost your sex drive
- so my bf takes these pills that are
working GREAT called
DHEA which is known to raise your libio level .
my bf has VERY low testosterone level
and its worked great
it does not say take it with vitamin C but
my bf does to avoid any weird tummy feelings.

here is the link
to read about it

http://www.sexanddrugs.info/dhea.htm

katya093 · Dec 30, 2012 at 03:16 PM

with him taking it consistently , we went from once a week to every two days to
- well he has no problem doing it when ever now

also-
broccoli , pumpkin seeds
exercise - protein really help as well
i wouldnt say as much as the drug my bf takes though

Inedible · Dec 30, 2012 at 04:01 PM

There is a saliva test for DHEA levels. Too much is a cancer risk.

katya093 · Dec 30, 2012 at 04:21 PM

true its not something u take forever though just until you are up . and everything is fine
and the doctor we went to
says getting the cancer is super rare

katya093 · Dec 30, 2012 at 04:21 PM

anyway hope something works for you (:

Dec 31, 2012 at 08:44 AM

How often is enough? I am happy to have intercourse once a week but she's more of a once every day and a half type. Thoughts?

hamster-bamster · Dec 31, 2012 at 09:51 AM

Marty klein who is one of the most famous sex Ts in US says that one of the hardest problems to treat is different levels of desire in a couple.

Try giving her manual or oral orgasms daily and see what happens - that is the most approach.

hamster-bamster · Dec 31, 2012 at 09:52 AM

I meant to say the most obvious approach. Low hanging fruit, hopefully.

Dec 31, 2012 at 10:49 AM

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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster

Marty klein who is one of the most famous sex Ts in US says that one of the hardest problems to treat is different levels of desire in a couple.

Try giving her manual or oral orgasms daily and see what happens - that is the most approach.

What's the reason for doing that?

Inedible · Dec 31, 2012 at 11:42 AM

The purpose being so that your GF gets more of what she wants, too.

Of course, the issue isn't the type of sex, is it? It is the frequency. You are looking for ways to want to have sex more often.

I don't recall if I suggested ginseng.

Dec 31, 2012 at 11:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Inedible

The purpose being so that your GF gets more of what she wants, too.

Of course, the issue isn't the type of sex, is it? It is the frequency. You are looking for ways to want to have sex more often.

yeah, that's why the other suggestion doesn't really help. I can perform if I want to, i just don't really want to. But I want to want to. Which is why I am looking at increasing the libido with stuff. Some good suggestions in here, i will add ginseng to the list.

hamster-bamster · Dec 31, 2012 at 12:33 PM

Don't your partner's orgasms arouse you? Or do you stay indifferent?

hamster-bamster · Dec 31, 2012 at 12:34 PM

you may also try wellbutrin for this problem

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Anonymous33211 Guest Posts: n/a	Dec 30, 2012 at 04:00 AM #1 hi it's me again and after chatting to some ppl i get the same reaction, that there is something wrong with me, physically and I need to boost my libido How is this done? I know that Viagra isn't an option, it only increases performance, and i have no issue with that.
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Inedible Grand Member Member Since Jun 2011 Posts: 837 12	Dec 30, 2012 at 04:05 AM #2 L-arginine is an amino acid. 3-5 grams / day on an empty stomach with water. Exercise 3-5 times per week. Weight training is probably your best bet for boosting testosterone and thereby increasing libido. You can get similar muscle building effects from isometric exercises using body weight only and props like walls and tables.
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Anonymous33211 Guest Posts: n/a	Dec 30, 2012 at 04:13 AM #3 what is l-arginine in?
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dbadams Member Member Since Nov 2012 Posts: 21 11	Dec 30, 2012 at 05:14 AM #4 You can find it at any GNC, I know for sure. Im older than my wife and her sex drive is through the roof and mine is comfortably taking a nap on the floor. I started using GNC vitamin packs for sexual performance. It takes a bit to work, around four weeks for me, but it definitely helps. She now calls them my penis pills. Haha! Good luck!
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Anonymous33211 Guest Posts: n/a	Dec 30, 2012 at 06:14 AM #5 What's GNC?
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dbadams Member Member Since Nov 2012 Posts: 21 11	Dec 30, 2012 at 08:53 AM #7 Thanks inedible. I didn't even know how it worked; great explanation! Sent from my DROID RAZR using Tapatalk 2
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katya093 Member Member Since Dec 2012 Location: lahonda ca Posts: 63 11 1 hugs given	Dec 30, 2012 at 03:16 PM #9 with him taking it consistently , we went from once a week to every two days to - well he has no problem doing it when ever now also- broccoli , pumpkin seeds exercise - protein really help as well i wouldnt say as much as the drug my bf takes though
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Inedible Grand Member Member Since Jun 2011 Posts: 837 12	Dec 30, 2012 at 04:01 PM #10 There is a saliva test for DHEA levels. Too much is a cancer risk.
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katya093 Member Member Since Dec 2012 Location: lahonda ca Posts: 63 11 1 hugs given	Dec 30, 2012 at 04:21 PM #11 true its not something u take forever though just until you are up . and everything is fine and the doctor we went to says getting the cancer is super rare
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katya093 Member Member Since Dec 2012 Location: lahonda ca Posts: 63 11 1 hugs given	Dec 30, 2012 at 04:21 PM #12 anyway hope something works for you (:
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Anonymous33211 Guest Posts: n/a	Dec 31, 2012 at 08:44 AM #13 How often is enough? I am happy to have intercourse once a week but she's more of a once every day and a half type. Thoughts?
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hamster-bamster Account Suspended Member Since Sep 2011 Location: Northern California Posts: 14,805 (SuperPoster!) 12 3,729 hugs given	Dec 31, 2012 at 09:51 AM #14 Marty klein who is one of the most famous sex Ts in US says that one of the hardest problems to treat is different levels of desire in a couple. Try giving her manual or oral orgasms daily and see what happens - that is the most approach.
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hamster-bamster Account Suspended Member Since Sep 2011 Location: Northern California Posts: 14,805 (SuperPoster!) 12 3,729 hugs given	Dec 31, 2012 at 09:52 AM #15 I meant to say the most obvious approach. Low hanging fruit, hopefully.
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Inedible Grand Member Member Since Jun 2011 Posts: 837 12	Dec 31, 2012 at 11:42 AM #17 The purpose being so that your GF gets more of what she wants, too. Of course, the issue isn't the type of sex, is it? It is the frequency. You are looking for ways to want to have sex more often. I don't recall if I suggested ginseng.
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hamster-bamster Account Suspended Member Since Sep 2011 Location: Northern California Posts: 14,805 (SuperPoster!) 12 3,729 hugs given	Dec 31, 2012 at 12:33 PM #19 Don't your partner's orgasms arouse you? Or do you stay indifferent?
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hamster-bamster Account Suspended Member Since Sep 2011 Location: Northern California Posts: 14,805 (SuperPoster!) 12 3,729 hugs given	Dec 31, 2012 at 12:34 PM #20 you may also try wellbutrin for this problem
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