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F.f. The way you are is a good thing and a compliment to any girl you might date in future. Your sex drive may awaken when in a commited relationship with someone you care about. When you find a true connection you will enjoy your lovemaking, as opposed to 'getting laid'. Nothing wrong in that, absolutely nothing. In fact it's a credit to you, and your upbringing.
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F.f. The way you are is a good thing and a compliment to any girl you might date in future. Your sex drive may awaken when in a commited relationship with someone you care about. When you find a true connection you will enjoy your lovemaking, as opposed to 'getting laid'. Nothing wrong in that, absolutely nothing. In fact it's a credit to you, and your upbringing.
well thank you! my brother is complete different from me though he enjoys sex with random people and constantly having sex
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FF both of my H's brothers are like your brother. One has 5 children that he claims and supports from 3 relationships two which were marriages. His other brother slept w/ all his other brothers ex's. He married 2 different wemen and has 2 children one from ea marriage. My family and my H's family togehter would make a great Jerry Springer Episode. Hopefully your brother is not that bad. My H tells me all the time "I have no thing positive in terms of family to bring to the table" I tell him he does. We have 2 teenage boys my H's brothers are a prime example of what drugs, alcohol, and sex can do for ya. So your so much better off my friend. Take your time.
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FF both of my H's brothers are like your brother. One has 5 children that he claims and supports from 3 relationships two which were marriages. His other brother slept w/ all his other brothers ex's. He married 2 different wemen and has 2 children one from ea marriage. My family and my H's family togehter would make a great Jerry Springer Episode. Hopefully your brother is not that bad. My H tells me all the time "I have no thing positive in terms of family to bring to the table" I tell him he does. We have 2 teenage boys my H's brothers are a prime example of what drugs, alcohol, and sex can do for ya. So your so much better off my friend. Take your time.
im not rushing into it again.it was a mistake but I don't regret it, I don't regret anything
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The first guy I was with was a short lived relationship after that one night. But the events that led up to that could not have been more perfect. It is not something I regret to this day. This man is not my H. But after being married 18 years to my H and as much as I love him, that one night will be part of me forever and regret is not any part of that memory.

I'm glad you don't regret it. Love, learn and live, and some day love again.
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The first guy I was with was a short lived relationship after that one night. But the events that led up to that could not have been more perfect. It is not something I regret to this day. This man is not my H. But after being married 18 years to my H and as much as I love him, that one night will be part of me forever and regret is not any part of that memory.

I'm glad you don't regret it. Love, learn and live, and some day love again.
im actually happy im a "lovemaker" it makes things special and im happy I don't want to rush things. I was hanging out with this girl as friends and I was talking to this girl I like and she made me promise her that I would not have sex with that girl and to this day I kept that promise, I havnt had sex since I promised her that I wouldn't. I wonder if that has to do with anything
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im actually happy im a "lovemaker" it makes things special and im happy I don't want to rush things. I was hanging out with this girl as friends and I was talking to this girl I like and she made me promise her that I would not have sex with that girl and to this day I kept that promise, I havnt had sex since I promised her that I wouldn't. I wonder if that has to do with anything
I left out the part were the girl I was hanging out with wanted to have sex with me
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Your promise may have something to do w/ it, that sounds very noble.
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Your promise may have something to do w/ it, that sounds very noble.
im not one to break a promise
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Good a sign of good character.
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