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Jan 19, 2012 at 07:28 AM
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I'm 33 and I'm a relationship virgin anyway.
I saw a sex worker once when i was 23, but I don't think that counts, and plus I was bored the whole time. So I still consider myself a virgin? Oddly enough I think I would rather kiss a woman than have sex with her. Discuss. |
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Jan 25, 2012 at 02:17 AM
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female and almost 31 virgin
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Jan 25, 2012 at 04:42 AM
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Why would anyone want to disclose this info to a stranger online?
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Jan 25, 2012 at 04:44 AM
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Idk, maybe bcoz its a secret they no longer want to keep? Who better to tell than someone you'll never run into?
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Jan 25, 2012 at 05:04 AM
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I am somewhat surprised anyone has answered. I am even more surprised someone had the gall to ask.
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Jan 25, 2012 at 05:20 AM
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Jan 25, 2012 at 05:26 AM
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I think for some, secrets get 'heavy'... Thus the need to divulge. Or maybe a need for acceptance. Idk hey, I'm not the secretive type, so it's just my humble opinion.
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Jan 25, 2012 at 05:35 AM
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So it's like a release of negative emotion? I suppose it could also indicate trust and a bonding moment for the two people. Strange though, because it seems so counter-productive to group survival and thus contradicts evolutionary psychology.
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Jan 25, 2012 at 05:57 AM
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That sounds quite accurate to me, and yes it could indicate trust and bonding, I totally agree. But maybe we should be asking the secret bearers, I'm no expert. The 1 secret I did have, I divulged...
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May 20, 2012 at 07:47 AM
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May 20, 2012 at 07:53 AM
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I don't think this subject is anything to be ashamed of. Not sure why people are upset someone wanted to share a "secret?"
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May 20, 2012 at 08:25 AM
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I don't get it either suki. You aren't forced to read the thread and obviously don't have to answer, so I have no idea why anybody would take offense to a question. It's not like it was a discriminatory blanket statement, it was a QUESTION. Sometimes I honestly think people just like pretending to be offended so they can start fires
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May 20, 2012 at 10:36 AM
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I'm 23 but I imagine I'm not winning any records there.
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May 20, 2012 at 11:03 AM
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nice!!! Its seems everyone has there opinions, just like pc, lol, but this is a topic rarley dicussed and becaseu the area is so sensitive and hush hush, someone needs our help.....so the questions is who is the oldest virgin on pC, not sure, BUT its looking like you honey! Do you ever want to get married or anything?
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May 20, 2012 at 11:20 AM
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IMO who cares and its a personal choice. No big deal.
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May 20, 2012 at 11:22 AM
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Not me, no. I'm asexual and have never engaged in it because I've never wanted to. Simple, really.
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May 20, 2012 at 11:41 AM
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I think a lot about my virginity . . . mostly because I'm asexual, but I've been raped.
I would actually feel more weird about disclosing my age online than taking about my virginity - mostly because I think about the latter in such a conflicted and confusing way and I would love insight! I don't feel the need to disclose my age because it's a non-issue (perhaps indicating my youth more than anything else  ).
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May 20, 2012 at 11:41 AM
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I agree Suki. There isn't any shame in being a virgin. I wish I still was. I've been with two guys and was in my mid twenties the first time. The last guy I was with was almost eight years ago so it's been quite a long time. I haven't even had a date since then. Yeah that really helps my self esteem that nobody will ask me out and when I ask they're not interested but that's getting off topic. For those of you who are still virgins stay that way until marriage. It is really awkward for me when I happen to see the two guys I was with and I'm bound to them spirtiually for life. There is a reason God said to wait until marriage. He knows how powerful it is because He created it to be that way and He is trying to protect us not ruin our fun.
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May 20, 2012 at 06:11 PM
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Am 24 ... -_-'
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