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Jan 20, 2013 at 08:19 PM
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I don;t know if I'm in the right place or even exactly what my issue is.
I have always fantasized about taking a man over my knee for a good hard spanking. I thought I was the only one! Recently single and interested, so i read about it on the net. I can't belie3ve there are so many out there! Anyway, I've never even dared to mention this to anyone, but I'd like to get some input from anyone that has these feelings and how do you deal with them. I don't think I could act on them... oh, I am so confused.... sorry 
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Jan 21, 2013 at 12:09 AM
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Spanking is performed by people vanilla and bdsm alike. There are many vanilla couples--meaning people who have no interests in kink/bdsm--who enjoy spanking each other with their hands or with paddles. It's actually a very normal practice, there are more people who do it then you think. It's also normal for vanilla couples to experiment with outfits or role-playing without considering themselves into kink or bdsm. Don't worry so much about the label but about your body and how far you are willing to push yourself or your partner.
I'm also into spanking my partner, though I wouldn't want to be the one being spanked, and I'm sure there are many people here who also enjoy spanking. Hope this makes you feel less alone. |
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Jan 21, 2013 at 12:10 AM
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Hi there, and welcome to PC.
 lol Well, I confess, it's not my area of expertise, but it sounds to me just like very light BDSM play, which is much more widespread than you'd think. Indeed, even outside of BDSM play, spanking is quite within the realm of "normal," I think. You needn't worry about it...lol you only need to get the all clear from your partner. Communication is key. No need to be sorry at all, nor embarrassed to speak your mind here. I think you'll find us all quite accepting. Again, welcome to PC, and I hope I was of some help. Hugs, Harley __________________ The world suffers alot. Not because of the violence of bad people, but because of the silence of good people.- Napoleon Bonaparte |
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Jan 21, 2013 at 01:00 PM
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Thanks so much
It will take me a while I think to be comfortable with this type of stuff. I don't even know if I could say the word spank out loud...even to myself. Maybe my guy friend would somehow read my mind? lol How would you ask someone for this? I would definitely like to be on the receiving end as well, but a little dif, iguess hmmm...paddles? Guess I have to do some more research. Thanks for the support. I'll probably ask for encouragement as i try to get up the nerve to even whisper this to myself... spank. typing it helps a little. gosh, all mixed up |
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Jan 21, 2013 at 01:03 PM
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Thanks so much for replying so quickly.
I will get back. I think I'm going to need a lot of support on this one. Gosh, it's so new, so scary |
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Feb 06, 2013 at 08:51 PM
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Hey, thanks again...more questions...hmmm
So right I found a cool guy that would be into this kinda thing and mabe a little more of these kinda things, but I think some other guy is digging me too... Really weird. REALLY WEIRD like, no interest for like ever and then posibbly two dudes...like Really? I don't know maybe I can transport them in the grundlefly...I don't think they'd sprout wings but wings might be nice... |
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Feb 06, 2013 at 10:54 PM
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I would say just be open and honest about what you want. I would test the waters so to speak. I never thought about bdsm until my wife (then gf) wanted me to try it. It was exciting and different.
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