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Old 01-25-2013, 03:04 PM #1
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okay im over weight and have man breasts and at school my breasts get grabbed all the time..no big deal doesn't bother me because they stop when I tell them to..but their this one skinny male who does it and when I tell him to stop he doesn't...when I walk into the room he says "how big are they?" refereeing to my breasts at first it didn't bother me its been going on since school has started this year and lately its been bugging the piss outta me...he does not know when to stop..he does it I say okay enough he keeps doing it I say okay back off me...he keeps going so I walk away before I lose my temper and as I walk away he says to me"ya walk away pu**y" so I turn around because he clearly wants to start something and as he is basically running away from me he says "do something b**ch" im getting so fed up with this kid...I cant go to the school about it because last year I was bullied and went to the school and they did nothing...this kid even does it infront of the teacher and its starting to get me so angry im gonna end up hurting the kid...I have it all planned out break his hands so he cant grab me and punch him in the face and break his jaw so he cant call me those mans....theirs a saying where I grew up "if you keep poking the bear your gonna get mauled" and trust me he keeps poking this bear and trust me he is gonna get mualed
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Default Re: i psted this in a couple of places...but he keeps gradding my man boobs!

Bullying is a VERY big deal these days. Here are some resources:

http://www.bullypolice.org/
http://www.stopbullying.gov/get-help-now/index.html

You did a great job, keeping calm. Be the better person.

I can't believe you had a teacher do nothing. Sorry you had to go thru that. That was way wrong and could very likely get him/her fired. Tell your teacher again and if nothing is done go over her head to school officials.Use get-help-now above. there's lots of good stuff.

Good luck!
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Get a friend if you have one, to videotape what this guy is doing to you, if that's possible, or tape it yourself. Then call the cops. Forget the school. Schools never listen until it's too late. Get evidence of this action and call the cops and file harrassment charges. Or, if the teacher has witnessed it, just call the cops and have the teacher back up what you are saying. I wish you the best of luck in getting this problem taken care of. What that guy is doing to you is harrassing you and you shouldn't have to put up with that.
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@bighands its getting to the point where I hate the school...I hate going...im stuck with him for 3 and a half hours and those 3 and a half hours he is bugging the piss outta me....ive told him plenty of times to stop but he never listens I shove him away from me and he come back like an hour later....

@cynicalreality he is gonna play the race card(he is black and I am white) like I am past my breaking point with this kid...he has no respect for the teacher or his other class mates and he needs to be taught a lesson and if his parents wont im gonna....he needs to learn to learn to keep his hands to himself and when someone says stop you stop
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Firefighter, think about it, he will play the race card ESPECIALLY if you take matters into your own physical hands to teach him a lesson. If you teach him the lesson and fight him, YOU are going to get into major trouble and he will make it look like you are the bad guy. Things will most likely go much smoother if you gather evidence, and call the police.
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Firefighter, think about it, he will play the race card ESPECIALLY if you take matters into your own physical hands to teach him a lesson. If you teach him the lesson and fight him, YOU are going to get into major trouble and he will make it look like you are the bad guy. Things will most likely go much smoother if you gather evidence, and call the police.
that is true...but all my friends see him doing it too
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Ok, then please get a friend to secretly video record it. Bring the recording to the police so that you have the evidence, then file charges against the bully. You will thank yourself for doing this, trust me. I just want to help you get the problem solved.
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Ok, then please get a friend to secretly video record it. Bring the recording to the police so that you have the evidence, then file charges against the bully. You will thank yourself for doing this, trust me. I just want to help you get the problem solved.
I completely understand...but being labeled as a "rat" might bring on some more bullying ya know?
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Well, I think that if you do call the cops and the guy gets in trouble, that other people will be more likely to leave you alone so that you don't call the cops on them too. You have a right to stand up for yourself.
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Well, I think that if you do call the cops and the guy gets in trouble, that other people will be more likely to leave you alone so that you don't call the cops on them too. You have a right to stand up for yourself.
that is also true
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