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Feb 06, 2013 at 03:36 AM

Does this happen to anyone else? I have a partner who finishes before I do and whenever this happens she doesn't let me continue to have penetrative sex with her, all that she will do is masturbate me to completion.

And then she acts like this is plenty, and that i would be satisfied with it. Physically i am, i suppose, but mentally, I would rather get there the normal way.

Thoughts?

Mike_J · Feb 06, 2013 at 11:45 AM

Have you been able to talk to her about this?

Good communication leads to good sex, bad communication leads to well not so good sex or no sex.

Pandoren · Feb 06, 2013 at 01:18 PM

Have you thought about more foreplay for you prior to penetration so that you might have this additional period before sex and not after it? Have you tried experimenting with ways that might slow her down/speed you up during intimacy?

Agreed with Mike that communication is very important for both sides.

Feb 06, 2013 at 01:53 PM

Find a better partner.

Big Mama · Feb 07, 2013 at 12:41 AM

Sometimes after the big "O" the sensations are to much to uncomfortable and females don't want to be missed with. Things can get mighty sensitive afterwards. All I can think of is working to achieve better timing. Though that is quite difficult.

This issue seems to be the opposite for me, it's the other way around. He finishes first and I think "what, more please, NOW." or when it is time, it's time and stop, don't go back there, give things a break and then proceed as needed.

After she gets hers can you hold out long enough to allow her time to settle down and let sensations diminish then finish.

Hope that explains things somewhat. With out saying inappropriate words or phrases that is all I could come up w/.

hamster-bamster · Feb 08, 2013 at 12:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Illegal Toilet

Does this happen to anyone else? I have a partner who finishes before I do and whenever this happens she doesn't let me continue to have penetrative sex with her, all that she will do is masturbate me to completion.

And then she acts like this is plenty, and that i would be satisfied with it. Physically i am, i suppose, but mentally, I would rather get there the normal way.

Thoughts?

Does she have one orgasm or many?

LiteraryLark · Feb 08, 2013 at 12:51 AM

Is the title supposed to turn me on? Or do I have a dirty mind?

I agree with Big Mama, our sexual organs are extremely sensitive. It could be that, or she's just a jerk and holding back.

NoCake · Feb 08, 2013 at 03:50 AM

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Originally Posted by DrSkipper

Is the title supposed to turn me on? Or do I have a dirty mind?

I agree with Big Mama, our sexual organs are extremely sensitive. It could be that, or she's just a jerk and holding back.

Or she's scared...

Feb 08, 2013 at 06:48 AM

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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster

Does she have one orgasm or many?

It's hard to tell, although I think it's just one.

adam_k · Feb 08, 2013 at 07:59 AM

I agree with big mama. When my wife has an orgasm she becomes super sensitive. It's almost like discomfort, like when someone tickles you. I usually slow down and let her adjust. Have you talked to her about this?

Is she on birth control? She could be fearful of having a baby, or it could be a past experience that she doesnt want you to finish inside her. She is the only one that can tell you why.

Big Mama · Feb 08, 2013 at 09:58 AM

Lots to think about there. Correct Adam babies is a big issue.

Issues w/ the past can be concern. It can be scary to be at the mercy of someone's hormones, espicially such powerful ones involved in sex. Noisiness, aggressiveness, power and strength all a scary thing to some females.

You might just have to ask. Surely you ask other things, how do you like it, faster, slower, why not ask: how come you like me to finish not inside of you?

Inedible · Feb 08, 2013 at 10:14 AM

My immediate reaction to the subject line was "No. No, you can't." because it seemed more like asking a favor of the reader. I still think there should be a poll here for the answers.

hamster-bamster · Feb 08, 2013 at 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Inedible

My immediate reaction to the subject line was "No. No, you can't." because it seemed more like asking a favor of the reader. I still think there should be a poll here for the answers.

Thanks, Inedible, that was great to have a good laugh at the beginning of a busy day.

hamster-bamster · Feb 08, 2013 at 11:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Illegal Toilet

It's hard to tell, although I think it's just one.

It would be good to find that out from her for starters.

bighands · Feb 08, 2013 at 11:50 AM

Yeah. I always wondered how women who had multiples were able to make it thru that super-sensitive few moments right after her orgasm.

adam_k · Feb 08, 2013 at 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by bighands

Yeah. I always wondered how women who had multiples were able to make it thru that super-sensitive few moments right after her orgasm.

I wish I knew. Everytime my wife has multiples, it seams like each one is more intense than the last. I think eventually she is going to pass out or something. Sometimes she makes me stop for a minute.

Big Mama · Feb 08, 2013 at 12:33 PM

Thats what makes mutiples so great and wouldn't it be great to pass out from "O's".

"O" what fun that would be.

doggiedo · Feb 08, 2013 at 11:32 PM

I cant even imagine- she's a lucky lady! I agree with the sensitivity thing. Are u close enough with her where u can tell her how nice it would be if u could come together? Make it more like something I want to experience together, etc? She might be more open to listening to your suggestions at that point.

Feb 09, 2013 at 03:49 AM

Thanks for your suggestions all, i will try to be assertive with her when we chat next.

hamster-bamster · Feb 09, 2013 at 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by bighands

Yeah. I always wondered how women who had multiples were able to make it thru that super-sensitive few moments right after her orgasm.

I do not have any supersensitive moments and can go from one orgasm to another. I do not know what people are talking about in re hypersensitivity. No clue.

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Pandoren Member Member Since Oct 2011 Location: Land of Stumps and Dismay Posts: 347 12 1 hugs given	Feb 06, 2013 at 01:18 PM #3 Have you thought about more foreplay for you prior to penetration so that you might have this additional period before sex and not after it? Have you tried experimenting with ways that might slow her down/speed you up during intimacy? Agreed with Mike that communication is very important for both sides.
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LiteraryLark Crowned "The Good Witch" Member Since Jun 2009 Location: Wonderland Posts: 11,535 (SuperPoster!) 14 1,318 hugs given	Feb 08, 2013 at 12:51 AM #7 Is the title supposed to turn me on? Or do I have a dirty mind? I agree with Big Mama, our sexual organs are extremely sensitive. It could be that, or she's just a jerk and holding back.
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Inedible Grand Member Member Since Jun 2011 Posts: 837 12	Feb 08, 2013 at 10:14 AM #12 My immediate reaction to the subject line was "No. No, you can't." because it seemed more like asking a favor of the reader. I still think there should be a poll here for the answers.
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bighands Member Member Since Mar 2012 Location: Mid-Atlantic Posts: 304 12 43 hugs given	Feb 08, 2013 at 11:50 AM #15 Yeah. I always wondered how women who had multiples were able to make it thru that super-sensitive few moments right after her orgasm.
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Big Mama Magnate Member Since Jun 2012 Location: Virginia Posts: 2,191 11 646 hugs given	Feb 08, 2013 at 12:33 PM #17 Thats what makes mutiples so great and wouldn't it be great to pass out from "O's". "O" what fun that would be.
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doggiedo Poohbah Member Since Jan 2012 Location: Northeast US Posts: 1,014 12 242 hugs given	Feb 08, 2013 at 11:32 PM #18 I cant even imagine- she's a lucky lady! I agree with the sensitivity thing. Are u close enough with her where u can tell her how nice it would be if u could come together? Make it more like something I want to experience together, etc? She might be more open to listening to your suggestions at that point.
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Anonymous33211 Guest Posts: n/a	Feb 09, 2013 at 03:49 AM #19 Thanks for your suggestions all, i will try to be assertive with her when we chat next.
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