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This is a continuation of the one on General Social Chat, but there are some sexual things I don't get that wouldn't be appropriate to post on the other forum, and I'm sure there are sexual things you don't get as well. No explanations necessary.

I don't get fisting. I realize that the vagina can stretch (and so can the ****), but I don't get how that can be at all comfortable. Some people like the sensation of being filled, but I don't see how you can orgasm from that. But it's something I've always been curious about.

I don't get foot fetishes. It's one of the most widely-known and accepted fetishes, but the feet are gross and grimy and dirty. You walk around barefoot picking up dirt, you sweat in your socks, you get fungal infections and athletes foot...and you wanna LICK that?! *shudders*

I don't get why people don't wear condoms every time. Double dutch anyone?

I don't get why people are shocked when they get pregnant and they didn't use any sort of protection.

I don't get why girls are called sluts when they have sex while guys get called players.

I don't get how genital piercings or nipple piercings can be arousing to the person wearing them.

I don't get bikini/Brazilian waxing. Why put yourself through pain just to please someone else? I should know, I got mine done to impress a guy who I never even got intimate with.

Okay, that's it for now.
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I don't get an*l beads. How do you stick them all in? How fast are you supposed to pull them out? How good is it supposed to feel?
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I don't get an*l beads. How do you stick them all in? How fast are you supposed to pull them out? How good is it supposed to feel?
It wasn't bead, but my wife had a plug she bought and I pulled it out when she was orgasming. She enjoy it.

Pull them out like taking off a band aid?

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I don't get urinating on people for sexual gratification. Or going #2. It just seems gross.

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I've used a butt plug before. So uncomfortable. Although, it was six inches and it was pretty big around. I've tried masturbating and walking around the house or out doing errands and I felt constipated.
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I think their main purpose is to relax the muscles and make **** sex easier. We've tried it a few times. She enjoys it but finds it somewhat uncomfortable at first. It takes her a while to relax.

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I don't get porn where the man often spits on the women, often in her *** before a-nal sex. Find it disgusting.

Also don't like it where a woman takes cum in her mouth and dribbles it out. That is vile, yet many people must get turned on by it otherwise they wouldn't be filming porn like that.
 
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I don't get fisting.
Me neither. I can't think of anything that's a turn on about having my whole fist in a woman's vagina.

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I don't get foot fetishes.
Yes, gross indeed.

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I don't get why people don't wear condoms every time.
Because condoms reduce pleasure from sex considerably; often to the point where there is no sensation at all, might as well just be doing push ups.

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I don't get why people are shocked when they get pregnant and they didn't use any sort of protection.
Like who? I didn't realize there were people shocked by this.

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I don't get why girls are called sluts when they have sex while guys get called players.
Easy. This is because, in general, people are respected for accomplishing things that are difficult, not for accomplishing things that are easy. For men, sex is difficult to get. It takes persistence and effort. For women, sex is easy to get. It is much more difficult to consistently resist it while half the guys she meets is trying to get in her pants.

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I don't get how genital piercings or nipple piercings can be arousing to the person wearing them.
I don't have any of these but I don't think it's unreasonable to assume that there is a different, perhaps better sensation possible when wearing these.

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I don't get bikini/Brazilian waxing.
I don't see anything wrong with taking it off the legs for the purpose of a bikini if a woman goes to the beach or pool often or something, but any more hair removal than that, I don't see the point of. I certainly don't see why a man would ever do it.
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Easy. This is because, in general, people are respected for accomplishing things that are difficult, not for accomplishing things that are easy. For men, sex is difficult to get. It takes persistence and effort. For women, sex is easy to get. It is much more difficult to consistently resist it while half the guys she meets is trying to get in her pants.
This is brilliant. I am not sure it is all there is to it, but enough of it is right to be brilliant.
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Like who? I didn't realize there were people shocked by this.
Anyone from Teen Mom. I see so many people on advice forums saying, "Oh, we didn't use any protection but OMG how did this happen?"

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Easy. This is because, in general, people are respected for accomplishing things that are difficult, not for accomplishing things that are easy. For men, sex is difficult to get. It takes persistence and effort. For women, sex is easy to get. It is much more difficult to consistently resist it while half the guys she meets is trying to get in her pants.
I think if a man worked any harder, he'd get a f***ing medal for it, or maybe a decent girlfriend. You know what I'll do, I'll give a medal to my boyfriend after we have sex. I'll just say, "Congratualations, I know you worked so hard." Sex might be easy to get, but we have to sort through all the creepers, d-bags, and man*****s who just want a piece of meat. So yeah, a million guys want to f*** us, but there's only one guy who wants a relationship and is actually compatible with us.

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I don't have any of these but I don't think it's unreasonable to assume that there is a different, perhaps better sensation possible when wearing these.
I didn't say it's unreasonable to assume, I said I don't get how it's pleasurable.
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I don't get why I can't get off by fingering. I've tried it myself and I've let a couple guys try it and it is uncomfortable. And if you hit a certain spot it is almost painful, like being tickled really bad.
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I think if a man worked any harder, he'd get a f***ing medal for it, or maybe a decent girlfriend. You know what I'll do, I'll give a medal to my boyfriend after we have sex. I'll just say, "Congratualations, I know you worked so hard." Sex might be easy to get, but we have to sort through all the creepers, d-bags, and man*****s who just want a piece of meat. So yeah, a million guys want to f*** us, but there's only one guy who wants a relationship and is actually compatible with us.
Well with that type of attitude, you don't have to worry about many man wanting to get with you.
 
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man*****s who just want a piece of meat. So yeah, a million guys want to f*** us, but there's only one guy who wants a relationship and is actually compatible with us.
If you do not like that women are being called sluts, then you should refrain from calling men man*****s. Either or.

Also, in my experience, a lot of people and not only one guy would want to have all sorts of good experiences with us and might be compatible with us. There is no law that says that only one person can be compatible with you. Actually, to believe that we belong to a species in which each female is compatible with only one guy is beyond bizarre because such species would have long been removed from the face of this Earth due to the low rate of reproduction.
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Well with that type of attitude, you don't have to worry about many man wanting to get with you.
I'm sorry, but I do NOT submit to any man and let ANY man control me or use me, and I especially do not want any man or woman to think of me or my sex to be considered "easy".

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I'm sorry, but I do NOT submit to any man and let ANY man control me or use me, and I especially do not want any man or woman to think of me or my sex to be considered "easy".

If you do not like my posts, do not post on them.
Just your double standards of calling men man*****s, creepers and D-bags.

I wonder of the reaction if a man posted on here most women are *****s, goldiggers and *****es.
 
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This is because, in general, people are respected for accomplishing things that are difficult, not for accomplishing things that are easy.
Interestingly, I was just thinking along the same lines in the context of make-up and body-hugging clothing.

When I was in high school, I had a female tutor. She had a daughter, slighly older than me. Once, she and her daughter, for fun, put make-up on my face. And, not "nude makeup" as posted by Lynn on the thread about make-up. No - the kind of make-up that you cannot miss. I did not like that, but there was no way to take it off, so I went home. I did not expect a happy reception, but the degree of unhappy reception was quite extreme.

When I arrived at home - and my extended family was visiting - they were all shocked. I was told that I looked as if trying to attract attention, which was reprehensible, and asked to never do that again, ever.

Likewise, no body-hugging clothing etc.

But, the thing is, I was not expected to be a nun - not at all.

I was expected to get lots and lots of male attention, but without trying to attract it via things like make-up or body-hugging clothing.

In essense, this meant that there was a game that I was supposed to play, and play by the rules, and the rules were "you are not allowed any attempts to attract attention, and yet you should be getting lots of attention, and if you are not getting lots of attention, then you are a loser and a disgrace to the family".

But that is exactly what you are saying - attracting attention makes getting attention easy, and accomplishing easy things is not rewarded by respect.

Same, right?
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I'm sorry, but I do NOT submit to any man and let ANY man control me or use me, and I especially do not want any man or woman to think of me or my sex to be considered "easy".
In my own marriage, I tend to be the one to do the submitting. I still have my own goals and purposes and a life of my own, of course. I'm just saying that in some ways my wife will always be more of a man than I am. It's just who we are.
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Why is it okay for High Treason to say women are sluts because we're "easy" and make no effort in sex but I can't say that a man is a man***** if he treats a woman like a piece of meat?
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I especially do not want any man or woman to think of me or my sex to be considered "easy".
I think High Treason made a general comment that it is more difficult to get sex from a woman than from a man. He did not say that it was "easy" - he said exactly the opposite.

When you say that you do not want to be considered easy, you are contradicting yourself. In the OP, you wondered why girls who have sex are called sluts. Apparently, despite the fact that you say that you do not "get" while girls are called sluts, you still act on the basis of the belief that girls should NOT be "easy" to get.

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I don't get why girls are called sluts when they have sex while guys get called players.

I don't get how genital piercings or nipple piercings can be arousing to the person wearing them.
Say, you do not get piercings as in "do not understand them" and you do not get piercings as in "do not get your bodyparts pierced". So you are consistent.

But when you say that you do not get why girls are called sluts when they have sex, just to follow up with "I do not want anyone to think of my sex as easy", you are being inconsistent.

Just pointing it out.
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I think High Treason made a general comment that it is more difficult to get sex from a woman than from a man. He did not say that it was "easy" - he said exactly the opposite.

When you say that you do not want to be considered easy, you are contradicting yourself. In the OP, you wondered why girls who have sex are called sluts. Apparently, despite the fact that you say that you do not "get" while girls are called sluts, you still act on the basis of the belief that girls should NOT be "easy" to get.


Say, you do not get piercings as in "do not understand them" and you do not get piercings as in "do not get your bodyparts pierced". So you are consistent.

But when you say that you do not get why girls are called sluts when they have sex, just to follow up with "I do not want anyone to think of my sex as easy", you are being inconsistent.

Just pointing it out.
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