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I think having fetishes and engaging in a kinky lifestyle can certainly help those with mental health issues. The feeling of escapism and freedom helps clear my mind I am certain. I'm not that crazy sexually, but yea sometimes it can be good to go a little wild. Anyone else agree?
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I do, but to a degree. I firmly believe in all things in moderation. Some things can get out of hand...
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Sure, it can be helpful. Unless you have a fetish like mine that offends everybody.
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Ah Dr.. I don't mind yours.
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yeah i have pantyhose tights fetish obviously
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Yes I do agree. A few yrs ago I would've said no. Funny how are thinking changes. I just need to find someone to fulfill my kink
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Ditto on needing to find a kink-friendly partner who is also discrete!!!!
Men seem to be more exhibitionist about this stuff, I am so not that at all. There is always the danger of an angry ex retaliating by telling everyone your secret. Hello, closet!!! Here I stay! |
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Luckily there's lots of porn to watch & I can see everyone else enjoy their kink.
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Have to agree with the closet thing.
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There's just too many variables when it comes to trying to find someone to fulfill my kink. Is that enjoyment worth the possible pain it can lead to of exposure?
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Yep I think a certain amount of kink is healthy. |
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I don't agree personally. Kinky sex where I was dominated and degraded only reminded me of being molested and made me feel that sex was all I had to offer to a man. I think this may vary for people, but that's how it felt for me.
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Yes of course it must help. I have very intense emotions and pouring them out in an orgasm just makes me feel more calm.
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I understand Angel's point of view but when it comes to my kink/fetish I feel like I have that control back which i lost to an abuser. I play the game, make the rules & say when it's time to quit. I love that controlling feeling. It brings me power & endurance.
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I agree with ocdwife-all things in moderation!!
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Here's a question: Does anyone just prefer love making, sans kink? I don't mean boring, maybe more vanilla though. But love making full of kisses and being close? That's what I prefer, maybe because it's something I've never had and it just makes me feel so valued.
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Just to clarify, I don't mean that the sex has to be slow and soft. My boyfriend and I get more aggressive during our love-making and get going harder and deeper- it is not boring. Just not necessarily kinky. Sent from my SPH-D710 using Tapatalk __________________ Am I the only one I know, waging my wars behind my face and above my throat? Diagnosed: BPD PTSD |
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I personally don't see a difference between "kink sex", "making love", "screwing", "stock pot sex-low & slow" etc. it's all intercourse. I can't judge the difference as long as it's enjoyable
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