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#21
Be patient! Just because you can, doesn't always mean you always will, or that you'll always want to.
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#22
I know exactly what you are going through because I had phimosis and got circumcised about 3 months ago.
Because my foreskin was so tight, I never really touchec my glans directly. And I thought of myself as a defective guy and avoided sexual contact completely except for masturbation (I think I was compulsive in that). For a couple of weeks I was not to masturbate while I healed. But after the urologist said I was OK, I was so afraid of messing things up that I had no desire at all! I just started to go to therapy for this and I am really anxious about everything I sort of wish it never happened. I cannot even begin to explain how I feel about my body because I never ever felt normal. I guess I look sort of normal, but all the tactile sensations I thought were normal before circumcised are gone or different. I'm sorry I don't have any answers. I had other endocrine stuff too, but that's an other story. All I can say is good luck. |
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#23
First off, your spelling and grammar is much better than the posts I've seen from high schoolers and college kids my age on facebook. If you had not said anything I never would have noticed that English is not your first language. I applaud you for that.
I think maybe you are getting second thoughts about the operation. Maybe you could have managed better with the extra skin, perhaps not. What is done is done. It's a big leap and a big change. My dad had hip surgery and it changed his life, much like your operation. There are things he can't do now because of his surgery, but he is so much happier because of his operation. Your situation is similar. Your operation has changed your life, your penis is completely new, but I believe you will find that it is a change for the better. Best of luck. |
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#24
If you had a severe case of phimosis, it doesn't appear that you had much choice. Just be glad there was a fairly easy solution to the problem.
It's not like a friend of mine from another country (I'm from the USA) who had himself circumcised just because he noticed that most men here were circumcised and thought it looked more aesthetic. He now wishes he had stayed natural, but that's completely different than your case. |
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#25
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My recent circumcision is going to be life watershed moment as I'm already thinking in terms of life before the operation and now. I told a few people that I just lost my vest friend! Or he's become schizophrenic! Guys all know that our own cocks, as our best buddy, demands most if my intellectual capacity. If there is any disagreement, he usually wins. And now it is all different. |
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#26
Sorry only just seen this but yes feel free to MP me
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#27
I was brought up in a "naturalist, open nudity" setting.
I got circ'd as a teen. After healing, I went to a nudist beach. I felt TOTALLY NAKED. Because, the only time anyone saw my glans was when I was hard. I was soft, but yet everyone could see my penis-head. Freaky |
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