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Old 02-19-2007, 11:14 PM #11
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That's usually been the case with me, too. However, with my husband, I'd say I held on for at least a year, maybe more (it's been 7 years now). I am not sure whether it's intimacy in my case - but I usually do gain some weight as I get more 'comfortable' in the relationship, consequently making me more 'uncomfortable' sexually.

Vacations or at least getting out of town once in a while helps immensely.
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I should add.... staying in shape helps too. That's the cheapest and healthiest solution, of course ok I';ll bite the bullet
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kimmy that is what this is for right? being frank? go for it hon!
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"BTW~Well you could walk around naked that may help"


well I do walk around naked all the time lol maybe that is the problem lol
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Hmm - ok I';ll bite the bullet ok I';ll bite the bullet

Well, as with any long term relationship the sex is always going to be very hot and heavy in the beginning and then it will tend to slow down over the years, and it will always continue to have its many ups and downs along the path of LOVE & LIFE.

What I have found over 25 years with my husband (20 yrs married) is that we both need to have a little tune up from time to time.... and some times it will involve sexual intercourse and at other times it may just be a good relaxing back rub, a warm foot massage or spending a quite night together in each others arms while watching the sun set at the beach.
.... take a blanket along to sit on and IF he initiates wanting sex, then take the blanket to a secluded place and let nature takes it course - laying under a hobie is a smart way to add some much needed excitement without having fear of being seen.

I think the best thing my husband and I have done for each other is to always be open with trying new things in and out of the bedroom (at least once) - but if you find that one of you are not comfortable with a certain thing/act after having tried it once, then it off limits from that point on.

VARIETY is the KEY............... for HIM and for HER.



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I tell ya. he use to could not keep his hands off me. now it seems I have to get irritated and say something before he makes a move at all. then it isn't alot to it. very predictable to say the least. I know we are older now but geesh we aren't dead yet! our sex life was great for about 4 or 5 yrs then the rest has been a struggle. *sigh*
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FYI for ME -

How long have you been together?

Is he stressed or physically worn from work?

What do you see as your biggest relationship issue?
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ok I';ll bite the bullet ok I';ll bite the bullet ok I';ll bite the bullet
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BTW~Well you could walk around naked that may help ok I';ll bite the bullet

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LMO~I am glad that you laughed at this because I wasn't to sure if it was ok to put in my previous post or not ok I';ll bite the bullet
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we have been together 10 yrs in april. biggest issue? ummm not really alot of issues here. we get along great! only one argument in those 10 yrs and it was very minor.
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