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Default Sep 11, 2014 at 10:07 AM
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I dislike tattoos very much. Piercings are tolerable for me, except nipple or genital ones. My girlfriend has 3 tattoos and I wish that she didn't have any. If I could have found a girl without tattoos that would've been great, but unfortunately most people today have tattoos.

She has one large flowery tattoo covering her foot, which isn't that bad...but she has one on her breast and her neck too. She tells me she wants to get a large one across her back and I told her that I really wish she wouldn't but she says it's something she always wanted, so I can't stop her.

For my girlfriend to get a tattoo would huge negative impact on me as her boyfriend for a number of reasons. It messes with our relationship because it makes me feel as though she trusts the tattoo artist more than she trusts me. It disturbs my core mentally especially if the artist is a male. She is allowing this guy to permanently mark her body however he wants. To be honest it is harmful to me mentally. Lastly, I simply do not care for tattoos on the human body whatsoever. I do not think we should be permanently marking our bodies up - it is not a religious thing with me, it is just how I feel personally. I don't find them attractive or sexy at all. To me, natural skin is more attractive. If you like art and you want people to see it, make a painting and sell it or some other form of art, don't get tattoos.
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Default Sep 11, 2014 at 10:52 AM
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piercings are hot on either sex as long as they're no gauges or plugs. When it comes to tattoos I prefer my men with more tattoos (sleeves), while I prefer my women to have small, softer fewer tattoos. Tattoos in general are a huge turn on but it also depends of what and where on either sex.

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Default Sep 17, 2014 at 02:52 PM
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I think piercings and tattoos are incredibly sexy and they make me feel sexy. My husband has one small tattoo. I have about 10 mostly large tattoos, piercings: notrils, septum, navel and nipples.


What do you think? I have a hard time telling what my husband thinks about things like that.

I find tattoos and piercings incredibly sexy. Like seriously, it's always been a turn on for me. My husband is the opposite, he doesn't like my piercings or tattoos and doesn't have any either. I have 6 tattoos, and 8 piercings (ears, eyebrow, nose, lip, Monroe, nipples) and I've taken some piercings out because he doesn't like them. Maybe more women like them on men then men do on women?

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Default Sep 18, 2014 at 04:28 AM
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I'm not sure if I said what I USED to have as piercings: nips, septum, navel, nostril (still). Everything closed up and wouldn't heal except my nostril. Anything else I want redone will have to be silver of gold. Expensive!

My avatar is my latest tat. My artest is pretty good plus we go way back so I get a discount. Lol.

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Default Sep 18, 2014 at 05:05 AM
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I find tattoos and piercings incredibly sexy. Like seriously, it's always been a turn on for me. My husband is the opposite, he doesn't like my piercings or tattoos and doesn't have any either. I have 6 tattoos, and 8 piercings (ears, eyebrow, nose, lip, Monroe, nipples) and I've taken some piercings out because he doesn't like them. Maybe more women like them on men then men do on women?
I think they are extremely sexy on women (I'm still straight, lol). More so than guys. A guy with tats to me is only sexy by what tats he has, and tattoo placement plays a huge part in the sexiness. I have the verse of song by my all time fave band (Green Day), tatted on the side of my ribcage, "Little Monster" (Lady Gaga) tatted vertically down my side in script and the Jericho rose on my shoulder below my collarbone. Sexiest places in my opinion. Oh and muscular inside forearm. I'm actually thinking about having a pinup sailor girl on my inside forearm. She would have meaning to me. Just have to save for that one. Lol

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Default Sep 23, 2014 at 05:14 AM
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I think ear-lugs and facial piercings look absolutely ****ing retarted. If you are a dog anyway, then I guess it doesn't make much difference. But if you are pretty then please don't.
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Default Sep 23, 2014 at 03:53 PM
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A woman with her ear pierced is as far as it goes for me. Tattoos look atrocious and anything on any other body part is a turn off.
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Default Sep 23, 2014 at 05:08 PM
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A woman with her ear pierced is as far as it goes for me. Tattoos look atrocious and anything on any other body part is a turn off.
one hole in each earlobe, right? not a bunch of loops along the whole outline of the ear?
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one hole in each earlobe, right? not a bunch of loops along the whole outline of the ear?
No, just a simple stud in each ear.
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Default Sep 23, 2014 at 05:27 PM
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No, just a simple stud in each ear.
You are stricter than me in your preferences. For me, as long as there one hole and the earring is tasteful, and both earrings are the same, it looks good - a stud, a long dangling something, or anything in-between goes, although simple studs look classiest of all.
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Default Sep 28, 2014 at 11:59 PM
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I loveeee piercings on girls it sooo sexy nips an tongue piercings are my favorite but the others are nice an for tattoos well my biggest girl crush is covered it them lol they are also super sexy to me! if it's not something stupid such as a badly drawn Marilyn Monroe .... I seen one an it look sooo terrible it was on a guy's arm lol

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Default Sep 29, 2014 at 03:43 AM
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I think ear-lugs and facial piercings look absolutely ****ing retarted. If you are a dog anyway, then I guess it doesn't make much difference. But if you are pretty then please don't.
Ouch. Harsh.

Anyway, as someone who has a couple of piercings and a tattoo (and plans on getting more piercings and tattoos in the future), I like tattoos and piercings on men and women. I wouldn't say it's a turn-on necessarily, but it certainly isn't a turn-off. Unless it's a misspelled tattoo, because that just makes me feel sad.
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Default Oct 01, 2014 at 10:37 AM
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Could someone explain this new body-mod cultural? I can't understand it. I know so many people who are tattoo and piercing covered... And I don't get it.

I had an argument with my girlfriend the other day because she wanted a myriad of piercings on her body. And I love her body as it is. I don't understand how it "enhances" your body. And no one can explain it to me.

The only thing I can think is that it has a lot to do with confusion, and poor self image (or esteem). Because I've never met a tattoo/piercing addict who thinks very highly of themselves.

Because if you truly loved your body as it is, why would you want to change it?
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Default Oct 05, 2014 at 11:55 PM
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I'm not anti-tattoo on either men or women, rather I am anti-BAD-tattoo! There are so many bad tattoos out there, it isn't even funny. And then so many people get trendy tattoos of the time but then 10 years later they are so dated, faded, blurry, etc. My ex had bad tattoos and it was such a turn off as they were so damn ugly. The current guy I'm interested in has beautiful tats on his arms and I love them. Its very much a case-by-case thing with me.
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