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Old 02-26-2007, 09:08 AM #11
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i find alot of answers on the i village web site or red book and yes they are chic sites SEX i hope you find the answers to you questions and alot more. some of there stuff is really good.
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ivillage is excellent!!!!! I have found so many hints and tips as far as sex and dating and men and stuff go.....even though it is a chic site, I think it would be beneficial to men too. Just an example of what I found there, and I'm gonna try not to be graphic......I just typed in something like "tips for being better in bed" or something like that. So you can type in "tips for getting the heat back". I had forgotten ivillage. Thanks for mentioning that!
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People have different sex drives. I for one am a cold fish. My bf of 7 years would be happy to do it everyday, but I will maybe be in the mood once a week or even less... There is no normal or abnormal, only what works for you. When we go away for weekends, it's a whole different story, then we take every chance we can get. But at home, not so often... once a week if he is lucky... SEX
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Sorry, I don't have a reference... But I've heard that twice a week is average for people who have been married for a while. That means some people do it considerably more and other people do it considerably less, but twice a week is average.

You don't get more 'normal' than average lol
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SEX I also want to add that, a sex life IS important to a good marriage, so even if both were allowing a no/little sex without an agreement to do so for a period of time, then it isn't healthy.

What I'm saying is that if the reasons for not having sex include anything such as depression or fatigue or even lack of time, then it's something that needs to be addressed, imo.
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A good sex life is composed of many things..... a soft touch, a gentle kiss, holding each other... sometime physical and mental difficulties can change the way that love making is thoghth about and done... You have to adjust to what your life is ..... everything you agree upon with your patner is normal....
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sounds good to me..makes me envious. Try once a month..haha
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I agree with Sky. But what's "average" isn't really important. As long as both partners are happy, that's what's important, but like Sky and I have said, even if both are satisfied without sex, both should get checked out for physical and/or mental causes for lack of desire. It could be dietary as well.
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psych meds are a likely suspect...
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Indeed. And a lot of people think it's a worthwhile price to pay (especially those who aren't on them or who don't consider sex all that important). I don't agree.
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