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Default Mar 20, 2007 at 04:38 PM
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Complic8ed situation! Suffering... anxiety... questions... longing... Any1 else in this prison?
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Default Mar 20, 2007 at 06:07 PM
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<font color="purple"> ((((((( HUGS ))))))) ~ ~ ~ ~ ((((((( HUGS ))))))))) </font>

While I am not in this situation I did want to take the time to let you know that I care about you and the pain you are having to deal with over all this - Plus, while I do not know what you are feelings personally I do know of a person that is going thru this exact same thing (5 yrs) - and they too like you are suffering and trying to figure out what to do about it all...... they even have a child in this marriage.

I am not for sure why you married a guy or if you even knew that you were attracted to women more before you married, but the other person I was talking about said they married as to try and forget that they might be gay - almost hoping that it would change for them.

Please keep talking and maybe together we can help you locate your answer.

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Default Mar 20, 2007 at 07:20 PM
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((((((((((((((((((((((((((((hi))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

This is so difficult!!! I am so sorry as it seems that hurt is probably the way out right now for you. You need some support with this as this is a big deal and you are unhappy.
I really don't know what to say other than my heart goes out to you because I know, you were only doing the 'right' thing and that often, we come into ourselves so late in the game. But please know, you deserve happiness and you are worth discovering at any time..............and that perhaps all this has happened for a greater reason than you may know right now, but I am here to listen, even if I don't have answers.

Hang in there................!!!!
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Default Mar 20, 2007 at 07:57 PM
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Being a lesbian is very difficult... acceptance does not come easy... I have delt with this all of my life. But I had no choice... I have been different all of my life... I had feelings for girls when I was very young.... I tried to please family and got married, but I always had a womyn at my side. My children have always known that I was a lesbian... acceptance from them has been easy. I don't know if you have children... if you are not happy, think hard of what you have to do...

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married to a guy- but being a lesbian married to a guy- but being a lesbian married to a guy- but being a lesbian married to a guy- but being a lesbian married to a guy- but being a lesbian married to a guy- but being a lesbian married to a guy- but being a lesbian married to a guy- but being a lesbian married to a guy- but being a lesbian married to a guy- but being a lesbian
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Default Mar 21, 2007 at 07:25 AM
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wow i am sorry for you. it must be very hard for you to have such a life.
i think that you will have to make a decission.
what do you want to do with the marrige with your life.

i hope you will be strong enough to make it
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Default Mar 21, 2007 at 01:16 PM
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This is off topic but i was wondering if you could tell me how you posted a new subject? I can get the reply button to work but i can't figure out how to start a new post. married to a guy- but being a lesbian
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Default Mar 21, 2007 at 03:29 PM
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When you're on the main page for the forum (before you select any topics) click the "new topic" button on the upper right hand side.

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It still won't work. Maybe it just works for moderaters or something.
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Oh, I think its because we've temporarily disabled anonymous posting for new topics. I think you can only post anonymously to threads already started for the time being. I apologize for the confusion.

***Sorry to hijack the thread, we were just figuring out technical issues. ***

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Default Mar 21, 2007 at 04:09 PM
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hey, you hi-jackers! married to a guy- but being a lesbian
thanx for the support! It's really killin' me... this situation...
Kids? yeah... have kids. felt... but not allowed the emotions and thoughts to really surface... since I was around 10. rat in a trap...
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Default Mar 21, 2007 at 04:48 PM
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Can I ask if you have a therapist? Or the possibility of one? I think any decision made at this realization is going to be tough for many involved (especially you!) You need some local support on hand that can be there with you and help provide support you can utilize.
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Default Mar 21, 2007 at 08:57 PM
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you probably know theres for sexual orientation, and sexuality is fluid and always changing..... I know one girl whos lesbian but in a very serious and long relationship with a guy, and there very happy but she still identifies herself as lesbian. don't worry... it happens!

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