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Default Mar 06, 2007 at 03:06 AM
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Even since i was little, even to this day, when i get angry or frusterated annoyed or uncomfortable my private parts down south tingle and feel gross and dirty. I dont know why. But when someone is yelling at me or yelling at each other I feel the urge to go to the other room alone and grab and pinch and punch myself down there. It gets so bad i cant sit still. I just feel like i need to hurt myself down there. I dont know why. I dont remember anything from my past to feel that way...I just dont know...thats not normal is it? Whats wrong with me?

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Default Mar 06, 2007 at 11:53 AM
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Inny, when we get angry, adrenaline rushes through our bodies. We get the "flight or fight" response. Especially when others are fighting. I've noticed that sometimes when that happens, I feel sensations there as well. I haven't had the urge to hurt myself there when it happens, but I always feel like "why does this seem to affect that area???" It's almost like I'm getting aroused at conflict, and I feel like I shouldn't. So maybe that's why you have the urge to hurt yourself? Because you feel you shouldn't get feelings there when you're angry?

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Default Mar 08, 2007 at 08:25 AM
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" Because you feel you shouldn't get feelings there when you're angry? "
i agree-is it BLAME?

that`s interesting. you are male guys aren`t you?
i have read that for men want to have sex wen tehy`re angry and women are`nt. so i gess that anger has somehting to do with sexi men. ..

...so if i make my boyfriend angry on perpose and than kiss him adn tempt him he will respond and have sex....?
well just wondering Sexuality and anger itt`s funny.
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Default Mar 08, 2007 at 11:27 AM
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InACorner's a girl, lol! Just thought I'd clarify. Sexuality and anger

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lol yep last time i checked i was a girl!! Good thing too...my since my boyfriend is straight and gags at the thought of touching a guy lol....

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Default Mar 15, 2007 at 07:59 PM
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ho God i am sorry.....
you know..."Inacorner" could be anyone.
that`s what unclear and mysterious in usenames....

heck THAT`S funny
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Default Mar 16, 2007 at 10:12 AM
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Hi Inny,
I have body rememberence.... a lot of the times when I am sexually stimulated I get tremendous pain down south..... It is awful that we have to go through this stuff...

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