Disappointed about my vaginal opening

BubonicPlague · Oct 02, 2014 at 06:03 PM

I just got my sex toy that I ordered today.

It was lifelike vibrator and I thought it would be just a little painful to go in once I saw how big it was.

It was 7 in. in length and 5 in. at the girth.

I tried slipping it in...AND it would fit!!!

I rubbed some lube on the toy and my opening, and I still couldn't go through.

It wasn't my hymen (it was already broken), I found out that it was my pubic bone. It felt like it was blocking entry. I'm disappointed that I can't use my toy. I won't ever be able to have sex.

Oct 02, 2014 at 08:53 PM

I think you need to see a gynecologist. Also you may want to delete this thread and post in the women's forum.

seraphic · Oct 02, 2014 at 10:47 PM

I'm not sure why this thread would need to be moved? It's definitely about a sexual issue, which is what the forum's for.

Have you had penetration with anything that size before? If it's a "life-sized" toy it may take some getting used to.

SnakeCharmer · Oct 02, 2014 at 10:55 PM

I've put in a trigger warning for discussion of human anatomy.

If I recall correctly, Bubonic, you're still a teenage girl with very little sexual experience. Is that correct? Your new toy is actually larger than the average human male. It's true that some men are bigger, but most men are smaller than the toy (according to measurements taken to make sure that condoms are manufactured correctly.)

For a young woman of little experience, it's probably better to start with a smaller toy, to use plenty of lube, and to stimulate yourself quite a bit before trying to use the toy. In this case, bigger is not better.

Just because your toy doesn't work for you, it doesn't mean you will never be able to have sex. I would be very surprised if the toy you described would work right away for most young, inexperienced girls. Trust me on this.

Before you become sexually active with a man, it would be wise to visit a doctor or nurse practitioner to discuss birth control and any concerns you have about the way your body is shaped and proportioned. Your anatomy is probably just fine.

Oct 02, 2014 at 11:07 PM

I wouldn't be too discouraged with this experience. 5 inches at the girth sounds massive, you should be proud that you were able to accomodate it at all.

RedSun · Oct 03, 2014 at 08:35 AM

Yep, the toy sounds huuuuuge!
Also, it's easier to accommodate a penis than a toy, cos human flesh is more..um...flexible, and will move with your natural contours. I wouldn't worry. I've had three children (ahem) and I wouldn't use a toy that size! I'd be terrified! Maybe get a little bullet type toy and insert that a small way to begin with. And, sorry to be so graphic, but if you can fit two fingers up there you'll be fine

Oct 03, 2014 at 04:56 PM

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Originally Posted by seraphic

I'm not sure why this thread would need to be moved? It's definitely about a sexual issue, which is what the forum's for.

Have you had penetration with anything that size before? If it's a "life-sized" toy it may take some getting used to.

It doesn't necessarily but I think more women would see it and many undoubtedly have this forum blocked. Women will have much better perspective/experience... also they ummm... also have vaginas thus more knowledge of them

Also I'll repeat... if a woman hasn't had a gynecological exam by the time she is 18 then it's probably a good idea to do so.

TheWell · Oct 05, 2014 at 05:02 PM

That toy sounds too big. It's not you it's the toy.

I also recommend a trip to the Gyno. I agree that every woman should go by around 18.

And I am female

ChipperMonkey · Oct 05, 2014 at 10:19 PM

I'd say your toy is too big for a number of reasons. Your first toy should be on the smaller size so that you can get used to it. I have been using toys for a number of years, and my largest one isn't quite as big as the one you've purchased. And, not all toys are created the same. I have one that was expensive with stellar reviews, but it hurts SO bad. I have no idea why its rated so highly as no woman wants something as hard as concrete inside of her!

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Anonymous37781 Guest Posts: n/a	Oct 02, 2014 at 08:53 PM #2 I think you need to see a gynecologist. Also you may want to delete this thread and post in the women's forum.
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seraphic Member Member Since Sep 2014 Location: United States Posts: 94 9 27 hugs given	Oct 02, 2014 at 10:47 PM #3 I'm not sure why this thread would need to be moved? It's definitely about a sexual issue, which is what the forum's for. Have you had penetration with anything that size before? If it's a "life-sized" toy it may take some getting used to.
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Anonymous33211 Guest Posts: n/a	Oct 02, 2014 at 11:07 PM #5 I wouldn't be too discouraged with this experience. 5 inches at the girth sounds massive, you should be proud that you were able to accomodate it at all.
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TheWell Carpe Diem Member Since Aug 2012 Location: New England, USA Posts: 4,312 11 631 hugs given	Oct 05, 2014 at 05:02 PM #8 That toy sounds too big. It's not you it's the toy. I also recommend a trip to the Gyno. I agree that every woman should go by around 18. And I am female
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