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Default Oct 12, 2014 at 09:09 PM
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I'm wondering what everyone thinks about explaining a person's sexual past. For almost all of my relationship I never told my girlfriend about my past until she found out about it on her own with no help from me constantly trying to cover it up. I was ashamed of what I have done in the past (I explain it in my other post: Changing from different types of relationships)

Some people suggest not bringing it up at all, and to be honest I never would have. Would there ever be a point where you would eventually expose your past? When would you have done it?
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Default Oct 12, 2014 at 09:20 PM
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I think it is very individual and the first question is - what did the gf tell about her sexual past?
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Default Oct 13, 2014 at 01:28 AM
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I think you're being a bit paranoid. If anything it's odd to tell a current SO all of the things you've done in the past. You aren't required to be an open book, so let it rest and move forward.
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