Am I a pedophile? Or was it just a random erection?

gayman1993 · Jan 25, 2015 at 07:46 AM

i am now worried about being a non-exclusive pedo, i've gotten 20 erections off of gay porn the last week and a half, and 5 off of straight porn. when i fantasize about havin sex w women i get erections. i've gotten 2 erections off of justin biebers six pack (he's 20). i think boys are cute.. but i don't think im attracted to them. i dont have fantasies about em. if im a non-ex pedo i'm ok w it since i will have a man who im attracted to , yet it sucks ... what do u guys think?

gayman1993 · Jan 26, 2015 at 11:06 AM

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Jan 26, 2015 at 05:41 PM

I honestly think you are reading to much into your sexual likes. Arousal to gay men/gay porn doesnt make one a pedophile. Neither does getting erections from a man's 6 pack, not when the man is of age. If you are not fantasizing about boys, then I don't think you have anything to worry about. If you are really concerned about this, you may think about talking to a therapist about your sexual confusion.

gaway1989 · Jan 26, 2015 at 07:21 PM

Pedophile? I don't think so... even when someone thinks about kids... it can be just intrusive thoughts.

psychandsinging · Feb 04, 2015 at 08:48 PM

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Originally Posted by kaliope

well, you dont say how young young is because at 21 you are still young yourself. there is some leeway with the age bracket here. based on one incident, i would not jump to the conclusion that you are a pedophile when you cannot determine if it was a random erection or not. if this becomes a pattern or if you begin to have arousing thoughts about young boys, then you should consider seeking help.

Tbh boners happen for no reason sometimes. I mean it's not like you were thinking about touching the kid and like getting off on him or anything, right? Although you really should talk to someone, no concern should ever be brushed off

db1973 · Feb 08, 2015 at 06:01 PM

You have pedophile-like tendencies but you don't act on it. I don't ever have sexual interest in young girls or even teens.

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gayman1993 New Member Member Since Dec 2014 Location: Norway Posts: 8 9	Jan 26, 2015 at 11:06 AM #22 bump......................
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gaway1989 Member Member Since Jan 2015 Location: rio Posts: 27 9 8 hugs given	Jan 26, 2015 at 07:21 PM #24 Pedophile? I don't think so... even when someone thinks about kids... it can be just intrusive thoughts.
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db1973 New Member Member Since Feb 2015 Location: Portland Posts: 8 9	Feb 08, 2015 at 06:01 PM #26 You have pedophile-like tendencies but you don't act on it. I don't ever have sexual interest in young girls or even teens.
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