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Isabella7481
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Default Mar 30, 2015 at 04:19 AM
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So I'm 16 year old girl, and I'm in love with my best friend. In fact we've been going out for nearly a year now. Its perfect, magical and I have never felt so right. The only problem is- and it makes me sad most of the time and feeling like I'm worthless and unnaccepted- my mum is homophobic.I came out to her last year and she spent hours screaming at me, making me cry and feel the worst I've felt in my life. She told me its not me, not who i am and im lying to myself- but if I'm not this then who am I? So I told her it was a phase and essentially I went back into the closet. But kept dating my friend, we're in love I'm never leaving her <3

I just think its so stupid and old-fashioned that relationships have to be between men and women. Everyone's human, what difference does it make if a person has different genitals???? You would think society of this century would be more accepting and open minded. But no. One of my friends is Christian and identifies as "anti-gay" and says its "gross, unnatural and creepy" she would hate me if she knew about my sexuality- the fact we have been close friends for nearly 7 years wouldn't count for anything. I am so disappointed with aspects of our society. It is literally in our human rights that everyon has the right to love whoever we wish- gender isn't mentioned.

Sorry about the rant... Any advice on how to come out a second time?
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Default Mar 30, 2015 at 03:50 PM
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The good thing is, being same sex oriented is becoming something that is widely accepted. So really all you can do is say "Yes I like women, deal with it." Anyone that has the guts to bully you for who you love can easily be reported to adults or figureheads. As far as you friend that identifies as anti-gay, if they cannot accept you for who you are, regardless of your preferences or life-style, and would drop you that fast, she was never your real friend to begin with.
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Default Apr 02, 2015 at 03:34 AM
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Agreed. your friend would hate you? Sounds like her true colors are showing and I would use against her but as a Christian you are suppose to love everybody, love your neighbors as if they are your own - make sure she goes back and read that verse!
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Default Apr 02, 2015 at 05:00 AM
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Its a very delicate situation, i have to always at least pretend to be friends with her because her mum and mine are really god friends.
I just believe everyone should be more accepting, sure everyone has a right to their own opinion, but they still need to respect the opinions of others.
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Default Apr 02, 2015 at 05:01 AM
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Its a very delicate situation, i have to always at least pretend to be friends with her because her mum and mine are really god friends.
I just believe everyone should be more accepting, sure everyone has a right to their own opinion, but they still need to respect the opinions of others.
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