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Apr 13, 2015 at 01:55 PM
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I'm 37 and I'm having trouble mainting an erection during sex and my wife is not being kind in anyway. We have three kids and it's hard to get some alone time. So when there is sex it's always very fast no foreplay no nothing . She gets her fix I get mine. Now for the past three months I have not pleased her in anyway. Shes a very controlling person . Or most recent sexual encounter was her manually stroking me I kept telling her that I wanted to make her cum first . I know she likes to watch me cum. But then she wants to jump right on top of me and have sex and it takes time to recharge and get hard. I feel like I'm worthless I've always been a sexual person. Always have to chase her for sex. And every since my problem started. She has become very sexual. I feel she got in my head. I smoke pot and drink on the weekends sort of exercise. Looking for any advice. Thanks
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Apr 14, 2015 at 11:56 AM
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Well, for one, pot and alcohol are not conducive to maintaining an erection. Second, you guys have a dynamic that's out of balance and it sounds like you're feeling emasculated. Throw in what sounds like some performance anxiety and you're in a very tough position.
So that said, I would suggest putting down the pot and alcohol, get some couples counseling and have some constructive conversions out of the bedroom concerning your feelings about all of this. One thing you might also check, being 37 your testosterone levels are dropping. It might be worth a checkup at your doctor and have them check your testosterone levels. If something's out of whack (hehe, just saw what I wrote), then they can help get your levels to normal. If they're normal for your age, you might also try something like Nugenix ... a natural testosterone booster that uses Fenugreek Extract. Good luck and hang in there. __________________ Helping to create a kinder, gentler world by flinging poo. |
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Apr 15, 2015 at 09:09 PM
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