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Default Apr 16, 2015 at 11:09 AM
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Several years ago my wife and I experimented with MFM threesome fun with a few of our mutual male friends. It was all about pleasuring my wife with no male-to-male contact unless by accident while we concentrated on her in double penetration. We both enjoyed it a lot and I enjoyed seeing her being pleasured by another man as I just watched and stroked myself. Time has passed and we're in our 60's and we no longer do threesomes, but I now find that when having sex with my wife I fantasize that I am one of them, or a stranger, having sex with her while I am away. It is almost always necessary to fantasize in this manner in order to maintain arousal or reach orgasm. Do any other men ever fantasize like this?
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Default Apr 18, 2015 at 09:11 AM
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Actually, I've read that fantasizing about your wife with someone else raises testosterone levels in men and increases sex drive. Some kind of primal response to wanting to be an alpha male and be the one to do the breeding. So as long as it doesn't cause malice or feelings of jealousy or such, it's not only natural but ... again, fantasized in a healthy way ... but can be beneficial.

(I think I read that in GQ or Men's Health or something, wish I had a link ... but ... sorry.)

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Default Apr 21, 2015 at 09:58 PM
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Thanks, Webgoji. Still hoping to get another take on this by a medical professional [psychiatrist; psychologist; etc.].
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