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Default Jun 07, 2007 at 02:01 PM
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So is it really possible for a guy to be too big for a girl? Cause sometimes it seems like it but then I think about situations (incredibly wrong as they are) where older men rape children and stuff...but it's possible then so...????

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Default Jun 07, 2007 at 02:31 PM
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I'm sure anything is possible. Just because sex with a largely endowed man is possible, doesn't mean it wouldn't hurt though.

I was really frightened when I found out how big my bf is before we had sex. He's uh.....big. Lol, anyway, I just told him to be careful at first and now I've gotten used to it. Any bigger though, and I don't think I could handle it haha.

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Default Jun 07, 2007 at 05:06 PM
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ohhhh sorry...blatant stupidity on my part! I feel the need to insert a little disclaimer here...my intention was not at all to make light of such situations as I listed above..I just typed too quickly to really realize what I was saying I suppose..sorry if I offended anyone! too big? heh? too big? heh?

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Default Jun 07, 2007 at 06:16 PM
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In the scenario with a child, physical injuries occur which I won't go into. If you want to know you can PM me. em
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Default Jun 07, 2007 at 09:09 PM
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I had 2 babies vaginally, so now I feel like if their heads and bodies could fit through OK, I could handle most anything. Before childbirth though, perhaps a different story.

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Default Jun 08, 2007 at 05:27 AM
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Sorry....this is the first post reply I've done here so please bare with me.

Firstly, my lifestyle is 'alternative' ...basically part of the BDSM community.

My learning is that it doesn't matter how big your are. Reason to this is as I have learnt that the body can be 'trained' to accept things.

Sorry if this sounds a bit frightening but giving time and practice a female can take a larger size not all at once bit little by little. Maybe at first with toys such as Vibrators ect.

I think foreplay also helps as the more relaxed then the more enjoyment you have. Play more and often and the results can be great.

I hope this helps.

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Default Jun 08, 2007 at 05:02 PM
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ever heard of the rips and tears that happen? yes it is possible to be too big.

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Default Jun 10, 2007 at 12:17 PM
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Yep!! That is why taking it easy & slowly rather that 'right in there' moment is far better. Rough actions causes harm, playing doesn't.

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