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Default Oct 17, 2016 at 10:19 PM
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I am a woman, and my way might be a little unusual. I like to do it when my stomach is facing down, with my hand supporting my breast, and I rub with my hand in a rough way and rub against the bed. I haven't heard of many who masturbate face down. It's very hard for me to reach orgasm from just using fingers front side up or even toys. I need more pressure to orgasm, and I get that from intercourse more so than any other sex act. For instance, it take a lot for me to orgasm with oral sex by itself, and maybe that has to do with my masturbation style.

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Default Oct 19, 2016 at 09:58 AM
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Ah, thanks for the explanation!
So I heard a different, and very interesting, description of a "packer" but you might ask on the transgender forum to be sure.

My understanding of a "packer' was that it could be temporarily worn by a person undergoing sexual transition from woman to man. It is supposed to give them a more proper clothing fit in men's pants as well as the feeling that they have something hanging between their legs (packing). I assumed it was more of a therapeutic device than a sex toy although I guess it could be used for that as well.
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Default Oct 19, 2016 at 10:02 AM
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I am a woman, and my way might be a little unusual. I like to do it when my stomach is facing down, with my hand supporting my breast, and I rub with my hand in a rough way and rub against the bed. I haven't heard of many who masturbate face down. It's very hard for me to reach orgasm from just using fingers front side up or even toys. I need more pressure to orgasm, and I get that from intercourse more so than any other sex act. For instance, it take a lot for me to orgasm with oral sex by itself, and maybe that has to do with my masturbation style.
Have you ever seen the move Black Swan? Natalie Portman did almost exactly what you are describing and I'll admit that it was a very hot scene.
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Default Oct 20, 2016 at 07:09 AM
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Have you ever seen the move Black Swan? Natalie Portman did almost exactly what you are describing and I'll admit that it was a very hot scene.
True! Super hot scene.
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Default Dec 18, 2016 at 04:48 PM
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I use toys. I can only really orgasim using the blended technique so I usually use like a rabbit or toys that simulate it.
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Default Dec 18, 2016 at 04:58 PM
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just normal way ... but I find as I age and take these meds that once a month seems to be plenty for me ... get an urge but can only reach partial size ... need a short bit of porn to finish ... not very satisfying but does seem to relieve whatever I am feeling ... I forsee in near future no longer having any urges ...

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Default Dec 30, 2016 at 01:39 PM
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There is none.

I've been doing this NoFap for a year, I won't share any details regarding the rules that I follow. Opinions may vary, but the result of this personal experiment tells me that there seems to be no bad health side-effects that one may concern themselves with, and at times, it wasn't easy to keep myself from climaxing because of this heightened mood state that I often get. NoFap's rule is simple, no PMO, no porn, masturbation and orgasm are allowed. Anything out side of that is the rule that people can set for themselves, for me the primary reason for doing this is an ethical one, or I could say it's a simple life style choice that I made. I'm proud to be a fapstronaut today heading for another year of life explorations.
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Default Jan 23, 2017 at 06:03 AM
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I watched a movie on Netflix called Love by Gaspar Noe.
It's .. um.. well I found it enjoyable lol. It's one of the regular movies that used real sex scenes. Nice shots too lol.

Masturbation... well the showe head is nice. But it got so the shower head was the only thing that worked. So I stopped. Usually my hand... and can be maybe once a month to several times a day. Like black-roses, I like it outside to squirt but only at night because we have neighbors. I've been sleeping on the couch for five years and my husband hasn't touched me in that time. Which is fine because in 20years he never could get me off. I do miss the physical contact though. Just a f'n hug every now and then would be nice.
I can't make myself cum with penetration. Few men in my life could. But I've been masturbating my clit since probably 3years old. I remember my mom coming in and pulling up my underwear after I had fallen asleep. She never said anything about it and I learned to pull them up myself so she wouldn't know.
When I was pregnant I literally had sex or masturbated with anything I could get my hands on. All. Dam. Day. It was hormones I guess. It was fun though. That's how I found out clitoral orgasm can cause contractions so I got scared and stopped. He was born a month early anyway.

Basically, I rub one out, two if I'm lucky, maybe twice a day. Sometimes I get nothing and sometimes it only takes a few seconds.

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Default Apr 05, 2019 at 06:23 AM
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I have to wear panties and bras lingerie night gowns etc and masturbate with panties and watch porn
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Favorite? Definitely with someone else, - which does not happen that often - but definitely my favorite. You totally focus on your partner - and that can be extremely satisfying.

That would be nice with someone else if there was someone else that would.
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Default Jun 18, 2019 at 03:18 PM
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My favorite way is woman on woman action. That sets me off in a hurry. 😍
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Default Jul 10, 2019 at 04:03 PM
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Has anyone used the suction from a vacuum to masterbate? I wonder what that would feel like?
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Default Jul 10, 2019 at 04:11 PM
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One of the few advantages to being an inorganic psychesexual is that I never have to masturbate. It's always making love. And I'm in love.

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Has anyone used the suction from a vacuum to masterbate? I wonder what that would feel like?
Word on the street is, this is not a good idea.

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Default Aug 24, 2019 at 10:14 AM
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I’m not going to share this on a public forum, but I will say that I started masturbating when I was only 11 and the way I learned then is the way I still do it now. It’s funny how what gets imprinted on us when we’re young stays with us as we get older. I’ve tried other ways but nothing is as good as the original.
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Default Aug 24, 2019 at 10:15 AM
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LOL. I know your joking because this would do NOTHING to arouse a woman. There are many things that would buy this isn’t one of them.
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Default Sep 08, 2019 at 11:36 AM
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There are so many great ways. I'm not sure I can answer that.
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Default Dec 21, 2019 at 07:14 PM
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Does anyone else have any great ideas on masterbating?
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Default Dec 23, 2019 at 10:49 AM
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Does anyone else have any great ideas on masterbating?
I'm a bit of an exhibitionist and I discovered a site where I can masturbate on webcam anonymously and other people can watch. It's pretty exciting to be watched.
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Default Dec 23, 2019 at 12:14 PM
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In public is my favourite (jk)

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