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Default Aug 28, 2016 at 09:08 PM
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Mine is in the shower with the hand held shower head pulsing between my legs

Also, how often do you masturbate? I'd say 5x/wk on average for me
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Default Aug 28, 2016 at 09:52 PM
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For me its when I'm about to go to sleep...and with my hand.
I did it every other night then last week, I decided to stop for awhile.
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Default Sep 01, 2016 at 08:47 PM
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Once or twice around nighttime/before bed daily - just the simple using my hand works along with my imagination. I miss my Hitachi magic wand though + look forward to getting another one soon. I have several kinks/fetishes also.
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Default Sep 02, 2016 at 03:46 PM
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I use a pillow.

I have one big drawn out fantasy that lasts for weeks or months, occasionally years with details or character changes. Lots of foreplay. The act itself? about 4x a day, once in the morning, afternoon, and then I usually build up to the evening, and then maybe again right before bed, and then more gentle foreplay to put me to sleep.
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Default Sep 02, 2016 at 03:49 PM
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By myself, lol! What kind of a question is this?

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Default Sep 03, 2016 at 08:13 AM
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They say that the way one Masturbates greatly influences the way they have intercourse , YOLO good luck with finding a guy with pulsing waterjets, that's not a common problem unless they are incontinent!
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Default Sep 03, 2016 at 11:15 PM
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I like to masturbate to porn, since I have a low libido these days I need to stimulate myself with some sort of video first.
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Default Sep 04, 2016 at 12:00 PM
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How: With my hand normally. Though I generally try to change it up by alternating or reverse grip or using "the stranger." I tend to use spit as a lubricant but sometimes use shampoo if I'm in the shower. I have a fear of using lotion, it changed my size and shape when I was younger due to masturbating about 20 times a day. I also occasionally use different materials like silk, satin, or latex. I've tried a couple of times with beads in, well you know were, it felt amazing but I think that would work better with a partner so I don't do it often. I eventually want to try a toy or maybe nipple clamps but who knows when.

How often: At least once per day before I go to sleep using my imagination. I just can't seem to sleep without doing it. On my days off when I'm up at night anywhere from once to four times watching porn (always sensual lesbians)

I have tried the pulsating shower head on... well lets just say the lower man parts during normal masturbation and it feels great. It replicates the sensation of someone else helping out. When I was younger I was a "pillow humper", but I disliked the mess and didn't want to explain to my parents why I had 6 different pillow covers.

My one piece of advise to those who are younger would be to never use aftershave as a lubricant.
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Default Sep 04, 2016 at 08:37 PM
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Actually at my go's office the only exam room room that Mt wheelchair fits through I'd the gyn door so of course in that room there are all booklets on sex and contraception and stuff and reading through one of them well killing time I read that corn husker lotion can be used as well as witch hazel , I brought that up to my doc ( female) and she like me said that's got to be wrong and we reread it and that's what it said but neither of us can imagine that witch hazel would feel like anything other than painful like Tabasco sauce or capsaicin cream ( I tried that for pain and nearly removed my hand , I am allergic to something in it, I eat crazy hot stuff and sauces but that cream was something else) , all in all reading a list of "safe" lubricants was eye opening just as the list of unsafe was strange like they say using condoms lubed with nonoxonol 9 was no longer recommended ( look in the pharmacy and sure enough very few condoms come with it anymore) it's still a safe contraceptive cream, foam and stuff so it perplexed us why it was not OK on a condom , any one know ? And incidently I have heard not to Masturbate with toothpaste it does not feel abrasive on the teeth but it's like beach sand , my late wife and I tried sex in the ocean in the Florida Keys, I don't recommend it.
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Default Sep 04, 2016 at 09:35 PM
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Favorite? Definitely with someone else, - which does not happen that often - but definitely my favorite. You totally focus on your partner - and that can be extremely satisfying.
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Default Sep 04, 2016 at 10:34 PM
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Favorite? Definitely with someone else, - which does not happen that often - but definitely my favorite. You totally focus on your partner - and that can be extremely satisfying.
I completely agree! Mutual masturbation is one of my favorite sexual activities. I think that it's so hot watching your partner touch himself and release his sperm and having him watch me pleasure myself at the same time.

I want to find someone to do this with in the near future!
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Default Sep 05, 2016 at 12:49 AM
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I completely agree! Mutual masturbation is one of my favorite sexual activities. I think that it's so hot watching your partner touch himself and release his sperm and having him watch me pleasure myself at the same time.

I want to find someone to do this with in the near future!
I've never been able to call mutaul masterbation good enough so it, so it becomes for me another form of foreplay.
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Default Sep 14, 2016 at 03:12 AM
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I usually pull up a good porn video on my laptop, and do the deed with the help of my trusty vibe. Or, if I'm looking for something different, the detachable showerhead on high is very, VERY nice.

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I completely agree! Mutual masturbation is one of my favorite sexual activities. I think that it's so hot watching your partner touch himself and release his sperm and having him watch me pleasure myself at the same time.

I want to find someone to do this with in the near future!
I haven't done this in a long time. It is great.
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Default Sep 14, 2016 at 09:40 AM
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I agree with many of the preferences said already...
My favorite way varies over the years.. defenitelly love to do it with my partner…
Sometimes on the shower and somethimes with my left hand… feels different.
I do it every other day… mostlly at night. Sometimes during the day I have to stop what I’m doing in my work and go to nearest bathrom to just masturbate.

PS to the OP.: Very nice Post! ;p

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Default Sep 17, 2016 at 06:58 PM
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Well, my answer must be changed now! Recently got some toys (rechargeable magic wand + tenga flip hole). I'd prefer it more with a partner, but they will do for now....
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Default Sep 19, 2016 at 09:49 AM
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I agree with many of the preferences said already...
My favorite way varies over the years.. defenitelly love to do it with my partner…
Sometimes on the shower and somethimes with my left hand… feels different.
I do it every other day… mostlly at night. Sometimes during the day I have to stop what I’m doing in my work and go to nearest bathrom to just masturbate.

PS to the OP.: Very nice Post! ;p
Interesting about using your left hand, I will have to try it!
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Favorite? Definitely with someone else, - which does not happen that often - but definitely my favorite. You totally focus on your partner - and that can be extremely satisfying.
My answer as well, daily and by hand.
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Definitely hanging from the ceiling like a bat, visualizing North and South Koreans reunify. They can see me come from space.
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Definitely hanging from the ceiling like a bat, visualizing North and South Koreans reunify. They can see me come from space.
LOL your post made my night! Thank you, Lefty. I needed the laugh. Unless you were serious...
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