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47-year-old male. I try to honk one off three times a day to keep my mind clear and my soul damned.
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Argh! 58-year-old male. I’ll just edge-bate if I know that I’ll be having sex with partners in 24 hours but...
...left on my own? 4-6 times daily. No porn, just focus on memories. |
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I'm finding right now, with my mood being rock bottom, that I can't even bring myself to masturbate. I have neither the energy or drive and everything I enjoy feels empty and pointless.
When well(er) up to daily, more often I'll skip a day or two. I don't have good memories so do use porn but hate myself for doing so, I really detest the misogyny in most porn and have been trying to make use of more ethical forms of erotica like so called feminist porn, which is actually more sexy, but there's not a lot of that and some pretends to be feminist but isn't really (it's trendy at the moment so there's some bandwagon jumping) Would prefer a real person even to hug right now though |
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Once a month? My sex drive is gone. I am depressed or mixed a lot. I am on meds that make orgasm very difficult. I am single with no hope of dating. Why bother.
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#45
47 yo woman in a platonic marriage...3-4 x a week. If I had a real person, who knows?
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I’m not sure if you’re intimating that you might masturbate more or less if you had sexual partners? I have multiple partners of ‘both sexes’ and edge-bate in a-n-t-i-c-a-p-a-t-i-o-n. |
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At least once a day, everyday! Often more. When my fetishes and fantasies take hold I'm worse. I'm in my late 30's and my sex drive is insatiable, my partner is in her mid 40's and also has an increasing sex drive. We just wish we had the stamina of 15 years ago.
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Well, yesterday was my once a month. lol I am gonna try for twice. lol
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No, we’ve not the stamina now that we had at 16. But we have so many more options and time. She is as slender as she was 42 years ago. We take time, we make time, we hurry time, we crush time, we open time... ...I’ve few regrets. But we both wonder, we play out, what would have been had I not left her behind? What if I had said, “come with me”? Silly. I had to go. Of course I did. And “come with me”? No, no, we weren’t lovers like that. We were frantic lovers, catching time when we could. Standing in the hallway, for goodness sake! Stamina; it has been replaced by some round water bead that has no name. A cool round water bead. Maybe it’s death. Or only gravity. It’s not regret - we both believe that we led the lives we wanted (save my holiday). Yes, 4-6 times daily except when expecting a partner or three. Then I edge in expectation. |
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#54
The frequency you're describing sounds about average to me. I'm not comfortable sharing anything quite that personal on here about myself, but once a day sounds about average. Assuming it's not like dozens of times a day or somethin, I wouldn't worry about it at all. Plus, aside from monks, certain yogic experts, and others who don't masturbate or have sex for religious reasons..... I would guess that pretty much everyone does masturbates with some level of regularity, with few exceptions here and there perhaps. Although, to be honest, I've always thought of it as essentially a normal bodily function.
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Yes. Like getting a back rub. Or rubbing your neck. ^
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Like anything else, there's nothing wrong with it as long as it's not creating problems with your relationship. If masturbation is creating problems with your sex life, I'd definitely give frequency a thought. That stated, however, an orgasm is one of the most pleasurable sensations in this life. Since GF & I have had trouble with our sex life for a few years, I find myself masturbating more frequently...probably 4-5 times a week. I'm 56, so my libido isn't what it was when I was in my 20's. At that age, I could probably have 3-4 orgasms in a day; now, one's my limit. If my GF & my libidos matched right now, my masturbation would probably be a problem. Since that's not the case, however, the only way I can feel one of those magical orgasms is by "bopping the bishop."
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I think Sprite means councelor.
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What happens when it’s too late? And how do you know if it’s too late?
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