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Default Sep 21, 2017 at 12:37 PM
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47-year-old male. I try to honk one off three times a day to keep my mind clear and my soul damned.
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Default Sep 21, 2017 at 11:02 PM
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Argh! 58-year-old male. I’ll just edge-bate if I know that I’ll be having sex with partners in 24 hours but...

...left on my own? 4-6 times daily. No porn, just focus on memories.
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Default Sep 22, 2017 at 02:29 AM
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I'm finding right now, with my mood being rock bottom, that I can't even bring myself to masturbate. I have neither the energy or drive and everything I enjoy feels empty and pointless.

When well(er) up to daily, more often I'll skip a day or two. I don't have good memories so do use porn but hate myself for doing so, I really detest the misogyny in most porn and have been trying to make use of more ethical forms of erotica like so called feminist porn, which is actually more sexy, but there's not a lot of that and some pretends to be feminist but isn't really (it's trendy at the moment so there's some bandwagon jumping)

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Default Sep 22, 2017 at 04:26 AM
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Once a month? My sex drive is gone. I am depressed or mixed a lot. I am on meds that make orgasm very difficult. I am single with no hope of dating. Why bother.

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Default Sep 22, 2017 at 07:52 AM
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47 yo woman in a platonic marriage...3-4 x a week. If I had a real person, who knows?
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Default Sep 22, 2017 at 07:00 PM
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47 yo woman in a platonic marriage...3-4 x a week. If I had a real person, who knows?
A marriage with no sex? I don’t even do close friends without sex.

I’m not sure if you’re intimating that you might masturbate more or less if you had sexual partners? I have multiple partners of ‘both sexes’ and edge-bate in a-n-t-i-c-a-p-a-t-i-o-n.
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Default Sep 23, 2017 at 03:27 AM
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At least once a day, everyday! Often more. When my fetishes and fantasies take hold I'm worse. I'm in my late 30's and my sex drive is insatiable, my partner is in her mid 40's and also has an increasing sex drive. We just wish we had the stamina of 15 years ago.
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Default Sep 27, 2017 at 01:15 AM
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Well, yesterday was my once a month. lol I am gonna try for twice. lol

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At least once a day, everyday! Often more. When my fetishes and fantasies take hold I'm worse. I'm in my late 30's and my sex drive is insatiable, my partner is in her mid 40's and also has an increasing sex drive. We just wish we had the stamina of 15 years ago.
My primary partner and I were high school lovers... 42 years ago. We stayed in touch, she is now divorced, we found one another and began again.

No, we’ve not the stamina now that we had at 16. But we have so many more options and time. She is as slender as she was 42 years ago. We take time, we make time, we hurry time, we crush time, we open time...

...I’ve few regrets. But we both wonder, we play out, what would have been had I not left her behind? What if I had said, “come with me”? Silly. I had to go. Of course I did. And “come with me”? No, no, we weren’t lovers like that. We were frantic lovers, catching time when we could. Standing in the hallway, for goodness sake!

Stamina; it has been replaced by some round water bead that has no name. A cool round water bead. Maybe it’s death. Or only gravity. It’s not regret - we both believe that we led the lives we wanted (save my holiday).

Yes, 4-6 times daily except when expecting a partner or three. Then I edge in expectation.
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Default Oct 02, 2017 at 02:23 AM
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Once a month? My sex drive is gone. I am depressed or mixed a lot. I am on meds that make orgasm very difficult. I am single with no hope of dating. Why bother.
Why no hope of dating?
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Default Oct 03, 2017 at 02:59 PM
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I look at porn and masturbate about 6 nights out of 7 and that's only because I force myself to take a night off now and then. I just feel like such a pervert because I'm a middle aged female and I thought that people's sex drive slowed down as we got older. My sex drive is stronger than ever and it seems like it''s been increasing over the past 10 years. Maybe it's the onset of menopause.

So, I'd love to know if you're male or female, approx age and how often you masturbate. I'm thinking that maybe I will feel like less of a sex maniac if others look at porn and masturbate every night too. Thanks in advance.
Male and I go through bought of masturbation. I do watch porn when masturbating and have fascination with homemade group sex. Its more of a inhabitation. I really seek one mate. I will say watching and being watched definite turn on. Seeing a woman please her self is big one.

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I say if it feels good, do it. There's no need to feel bad or compare yourself to anyone. You're not hurting yourself or anyone else.
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Why no hope of dating?
I really haven't met anyone I've been interested in, that would be a "healthy" match.

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Default Oct 03, 2017 at 08:18 PM
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The frequency you're describing sounds about average to me. I'm not comfortable sharing anything quite that personal on here about myself, but once a day sounds about average. Assuming it's not like dozens of times a day or somethin, I wouldn't worry about it at all. Plus, aside from monks, certain yogic experts, and others who don't masturbate or have sex for religious reasons..... I would guess that pretty much everyone does masturbates with some level of regularity, with few exceptions here and there perhaps. Although, to be honest, I've always thought of it as essentially a normal bodily function.
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Default Oct 03, 2017 at 11:45 PM
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Yes. Like getting a back rub. Or rubbing your neck. ^

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Default Oct 04, 2017 at 04:10 AM
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Like anything else, there's nothing wrong with it as long as it's not creating problems with your relationship. If masturbation is creating problems with your sex life, I'd definitely give frequency a thought. That stated, however, an orgasm is one of the most pleasurable sensations in this life. Since GF & I have had trouble with our sex life for a few years, I find myself masturbating more frequently...probably 4-5 times a week. I'm 56, so my libido isn't what it was when I was in my 20's. At that age, I could probably have 3-4 orgasms in a day; now, one's my limit. If my GF & my libidos matched right now, my masturbation would probably be a problem. Since that's not the case, however, the only way I can feel one of those magical orgasms is by "bopping the bishop."
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Male and I go through bought of masturbation. I do watch porn when masturbating and have fascination with homemade group sex. Its more of a inhabitation. I really seek one mate. I will say watching and being watched definite turn on. Seeing a woman please her self is big one.

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I think Sprite means councelor.
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What happens when it’s too late? And how do you know if it’s too late?
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