How often do you masturbate?

Shazerac · Oct 04, 2017 at 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by ReptileInYourHead

What happens when it’s too late? And how do you know if it’s too late?

Hmmm..good question....maybe when the wanker falls off?

Patagonia · Oct 04, 2017 at 08:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Shazerac

Hmmm..good question....maybe when the wanker falls off?

You break it; you buy it!!

LiteraryLark · Oct 04, 2017 at 08:40 PM

Not so much anymore. I used to be several times a day now it's a couple times a week. I'm just so bored with it and it doesn't feel good anymore. Lately I'll start masturbating and realize nothings going to happen so I stop OR I'll get almost there and then the feeling goes away so no "climax" which is not really a climax but a "ding! You're done". Not sure if this is normal for 24 but I really don't like sex anymore, I'm really not into masturbating either.

winter loneliness · Oct 04, 2017 at 10:39 PM

Is that a problem? I would think 24 is too young to dislike sex. Do you have inhibitions or guilt?

I can't say how I would enjoy it or if it has changed. I am not really happy with one night stands.

LOVENOTSEX · Oct 04, 2017 at 11:32 PM

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Originally Posted by winter loneliness

Yes. Like getting a back rub. Or rubbing your neck. ^

Massage is AWESOME and yes I yelled that one. Do you go to any type of support meetings?

LOVENOTSEX · Oct 04, 2017 at 11:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Shazerac

Hmmm..good question....maybe when the wanker falls off?

LOL

That would be one definite indication

LOVENOTSEX · Oct 04, 2017 at 11:39 PM

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Originally Posted by winter loneliness

Is that a problem? I would think 24 is too young to dislike sex. Do you have inhibitions or guilt?

I can't say how I would enjoy it or if it has changed. I am not really happy with one night stands.

Na to hell with one night stands. That is what masturbation is for. I would RATHER A REAL CONNECTION.

Biteplate · Oct 06, 2017 at 04:04 PM

I hate sex but like masterbation. I masterbate once a day. I don't orgasm from sex with a partner I get turned off. I get off if I do it myself.

emgreen · Oct 07, 2017 at 07:44 AM

I'm sure this might be a somewhat common experience, but when I was on a higher dose of AD's I couldn't ejaculate, no matter how hard I tried. Thus, I gave up on mastrubation for a time. My pdoc said this was common with SSRI's. I'm bipolar, though, & only take AD's when absolutely necessary, thank goodness.

TishaBuv · Oct 07, 2017 at 07:52 AM

Not having sex any more in a bad marriage. It became a nightmare, struggle for control to the death.

On Cymbalta which doesn’t block the big O. Get horny once a week approx and have been taking care of it myself. Feeling so ashamed and humiliated about sex altogether now.

When I was single, I masturbated approx 2-3x week maybe, was early 20’s, was not ashamed or humiliated at all. Felt very natural about it.

I’ve been traumatized, but I still get aroused (and fantasize) anyway.

arich62 · Oct 09, 2017 at 06:15 PM

Age 55 Male. I masturbate all the time, ejaculate maybe 2-3 times per week. I am addicted to transgender women, crossdressing/ fantasizing of myself as a woman. I am a member of Sexaholics Anonymous and Sex Addicts Anonymous. I would like to stop but can't. It feels so good and I need that.

LOVENOTSEX · Oct 16, 2017 at 02:19 AM

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Originally Posted by YOLO Lady

I look at porn and masturbate about 6 nights out of 7 and that's only because I force myself to take a night off now and then. I just feel like such a pervert because I'm a middle aged female and I thought that people's sex drive slowed down as we got older. My sex drive is stronger than ever and it seems like it''s been increasing over the past 10 years. Maybe it's the onset of menopause.

So, I'd love to know if you're male or female, approx age and how often you masturbate. I'm thinking that maybe I will feel like less of a sex maniac if others look at porn and masturbate every night too. Thanks in advance.

Yea I go through bought. Porn is addictive but safe. I'm in same age group. I just met someone online and much to my surprise she has high libido to. I'm trying to refrain. I but got horney and it is so hard no pun intended not to yank on the wanker. I have guilt complex now instilled by others and it confusing. I really am just trying to be accepted and if that's what I must do then so be it. The thing for me is when I did watch open it was always group sex but I think it's a fantasy or drug induces desire but when given the chance for group sex I had no desire. Wierd huh. I think your normal but I'm not exactly a authority on normal. Just want to find my mate. First time in a long time this woman has captivated me with personality. Major turn on. I So just wanted whack my pus when we talked about everything. Didn't ask her the porn question but yea we both said we like to masturbate but just wasn't cutting it anymore I said. Fantisy verses real experiences of what your willing to do and what belongs left in just fantasy state is where I would like to get feed back on.

kotoshinohaisha · Oct 20, 2017 at 09:37 AM

Just when I'm horny. Otherwise i don't really masturbate at all. I've thrown my two dildos in the bin.

spondiferous · Oct 20, 2017 at 05:17 PM

Whenever I feel like it. It's not a regular thing but it's quite a bit. Sometimes every day. Sometimes for a while. Sometimes I go a week or two without it though that's rare. I love sex. Everything to do with it. I've never felt ashamed of it.

Pikku Myy · Oct 21, 2017 at 12:08 AM

Daily

Oct 31, 2017 at 10:15 AM

Couple times a week but now it has decreased. I don't see the point of it. I get a good feeling from it and then it just ends in a few seconds. I need to get laid

I prefer being with someone. When I masturbate often, my energy decreases. It sucks.

BlueCrustacean · Nov 01, 2017 at 03:57 PM

Maybe once every couple of weeks. I think sexual thoughts fairly often, several times a day, but actually doing something about it is so tiring and time consuming to me that I usually just forget about it until I get to a point where I can't concentrate until I masturbate to orgasm. Then I can carry on with my life. When I was off anti-depressants briefly, I felt a strong urge to masturbate almost daily, but on them, I seldom have that urge.

ukdamon · Jan 18, 2019 at 07:06 AM

I masturbate, but I never ejaculate.

celticlonghouse · Mar 09, 2020 at 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by emgreen

I'm sure this might be a somewhat common experience, but when I was on a higher dose of AD's I couldn't ejaculate, no matter how hard I tried. Thus, I gave up on mastrubation for a time. My pdoc said this was common with SSRI's. I'm bipolar, though, & only take AD's when absolutely necessary, thank goodness.

Sorry- what’s AD?

celticlonghouse · Mar 09, 2020 at 03:17 PM

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Originally Posted by celticlonghouse

Sorry- what’s AD?

Anti depressants?

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winter loneliness Grand Member Member Since Aug 2017 Location: barren wasteland Posts: 988 6 209 hugs given	Oct 04, 2017 at 10:39 PM #64 Is that a problem? I would think 24 is too young to dislike sex. Do you have inhibitions or guilt? I can't say how I would enjoy it or if it has changed. I am not really happy with one night stands. __________________ "I get knocked down, but I get up again..." Bipolar 1
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Biteplate Member Member Since Oct 2016 Location: Maineville Posts: 163 7 1 hugs given	Oct 06, 2017 at 04:04 PM #68 I hate sex but like masterbation. I masterbate once a day. I don't orgasm from sex with a partner I get turned off. I get off if I do it myself.
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emgreen Wise Elder Member Since Aug 2012 Location: Michigan Posts: 9,645 (SuperPoster!) 11 937 hugs given	Oct 07, 2017 at 07:44 AM #69 I'm sure this might be a somewhat common experience, but when I was on a higher dose of AD's I couldn't ejaculate, no matter how hard I tried. Thus, I gave up on mastrubation for a time. My pdoc said this was common with SSRI's. I'm bipolar, though, & only take AD's when absolutely necessary, thank goodness.
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arich62 Member Member Since Aug 2014 Location: Salem, Oregon, USA Posts: 116 9 3 hugs given	Oct 09, 2017 at 06:15 PM #71 Age 55 Male. I masturbate all the time, ejaculate maybe 2-3 times per week. I am addicted to transgender women, crossdressing/ fantasizing of myself as a woman. I am a member of Sexaholics Anonymous and Sex Addicts Anonymous. I would like to stop but can't. It feels so good and I need that.
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kotoshinohaisha Member Member Since Feb 2017 Posts: 73 7	Oct 20, 2017 at 09:37 AM #73 Just when I'm horny. Otherwise i don't really masturbate at all. I've thrown my two dildos in the bin.
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spondiferous Dancer in the Dark Member Since Feb 2012 Location: somewhere, i think. Posts: 5,330 12 2,829 hugs given	Oct 20, 2017 at 05:17 PM #74 Whenever I feel like it. It's not a regular thing but it's quite a bit. Sometimes every day. Sometimes for a while. Sometimes I go a week or two without it though that's rare. I love sex. Everything to do with it. I've never felt ashamed of it. __________________
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Pikku Myy Grand Magnate Member Since Jun 2009 Location: US Posts: 3,103 14 4,904 hugs given	Oct 21, 2017 at 12:08 AM #75 Daily
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Anonymous41120 Guest Posts: n/a	Oct 31, 2017 at 10:15 AM #76 Couple times a week but now it has decreased. I don't see the point of it. I get a good feeling from it and then it just ends in a few seconds. I need to get laid I prefer being with someone. When I masturbate often, my energy decreases. It sucks.
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ukdamon New Member Member Since Jan 2019 Location: London Posts: 6 5 2 hugs given	Jan 18, 2019 at 07:06 AM #78 I masturbate, but I never ejaculate.
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