Penis too big?

MrBigD89 · Mar 22, 2017 at 12:04 PM

I'm 13+ inches and it's very annoying so I was wondering if that's too big or not? I've been depressed about it for years because most females are scared of it

Travelinglady · Mar 23, 2017 at 05:54 PM

MrBigD89, welcome to Psych Central! I've never heard of a "too big" penis. As you can imagine, most men wish they were bigger.

Perhaps if you tell the woman you are big before you get down to business, then that will help. Also, reminding them that not all of it will go in--and that if a woman can stretch to push a baby out, well....

Just lots of foreplay and maybe go slowly to start with.

LiteraryLark · Mar 23, 2017 at 09:27 PM

13+? You say that like there's a chance guys give guestimations on their penis sizes! XD

Patagonia · Mar 23, 2017 at 10:25 PM

If you find this annoying what do you see as a solution? I'm not sure I understand this question. Can you explain?

Also when a woman pushes a baby out it does not lengthen her vagina, it stretches the walls of her vagina in width.

amandalouise · Mar 24, 2017 at 12:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Patagonia

If you find this annoying what do you see as a solution? I'm not sure I understand this question. Can you explain?

Also when a woman pushes a baby out it does not lengthen her vagina, it stretches the walls of her vagina in width.

a womans vagina does expand (wider) and stretches (length) during the birthing process. it actually takes 6 weeks in general for a womans vagina to go back to its normal width and length after giving birth. some women's vagina's remain thicker, wider and longer then before they gave birth.

what determines things like this is genetics, the size of the baby, types of exercises done while pregnant, mode of delivery and how many children you have had in the past.

I have had three children and with each my insides accommodated in both width and length and never filly returned to the identical length and width as before pregnancy.

anyone can find out their measurements by contacting their OB/GYN who can tell you things like how long and wide you are and what to expect during and after your child birth process.

Patagonia · Mar 25, 2017 at 09:03 AM

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Originally Posted by amandalouise

a womans vagina does expand (wider) and stretches (length) during the birthing process. it actually takes 6 weeks in general for a womans vagina to go back to its normal width and length after giving birth. some women's vagina's remain thicker, wider and longer then before they gave birth.

what determines things like this is genetics, the size of the baby, types of exercises done while pregnant, mode of delivery and how many children you have had in the past.

I have had three children and with each my insides accommodated in both width and length and never filly returned to the identical length and width as before pregnancy.

anyone can find out their measurements by contacting their OB/GYN who can tell you things like how long and wide you are and what to expect during and after your child birth process.

Thank you for the information & I do understand this better. Still not sure what it has to do with the original question.
What does the OP see as a solution?

Travelinglady · Mar 25, 2017 at 12:14 PM

I'm not sure there is a solution. Just make the best of what we have.

MrBigD89, given you won't be able to change, then I suggest you follow suggestions like I gave. And please try not to obsess over it.

(Men in porno flicks are known for being big. Not to suggest that you pursue that line of work....)

amandalouise · Mar 25, 2017 at 04:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Patagonia

Thank you for the information & I do understand this better. Still not sure what it has to do with the original question.
What does the OP see as a solution?

here is how it has to do with the original question...

poster wonders whether the penis is too big (length). other member answered replying

"Also, reminding them that not all of it will go in--and that if a woman can stretch to push a baby out, well...."

then your reply...

"Also when a woman pushes a baby out it does not lengthen her vagina, it stretches the walls of her vagina in width."

then my reply giving the info that a womans vagina does stretch in length.

all posts in thread relates to original poster in that their length of 13 inches is not too long because a womans vagina stretches in width and length.

hoped that has clarified the line of relating to the original posters question.

Sad Mermaid · Mar 29, 2017 at 08:08 PM

I prefer longer sizes.

Patagonia · Mar 29, 2017 at 08:52 PM

Well if the OP finds carrying around 13+ inches "annoying" I'm assuming he's looking at plastic surgery?
To say here "is that too big or not" is like a woman asking if her ***** looks too big.

bighands · Mar 30, 2017 at 10:31 AM

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Originally Posted by MrBigD89

I'm 13+ inches and it's very annoying so I was wondering if that's too big or not? I've been depressed about it for years because most females are scared of it

Hello, "Mr Big D", fist time poster. Too big for what?

Erebos · 01:45 PM

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The average woman's vagina from opening to cervix is only 5 -7 inches so it's entirely possible the OP is having problems.
When a baby is born the cervix opens, it doesn't increase the length of the vagina only the width is this malleable.

Options, find a long term partner, take your time, prepare properly.
Try not to get overly forceful or aggressive when your about to ejaculate.
Try positions that don't encourage full penetration.
If your with an adventurous partner you could try an*l for full penetration. But do use protection. And again lots and lots of preparation and lubricant.
All the best, and good luck.

gayleggg · Mar 30, 2017 at 01:30 PM

MrBigD, I had a fiancé once that was that size and it did scare me a little bit at first but it worked out fine. Lubrication is the key.

sabby · May 06, 2017 at 12:18 PM

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MrBigD89 Newly Joined Member Since Mar 2017 Location: Colorado Springs Posts: 1 7	Mar 22, 2017 at 12:04 PM #1 I'm 13+ inches and it's very annoying so I was wondering if that's too big or not? I've been depressed about it for years because most females are scared of it

LiteraryLark Crowned "The Good Witch" Member Since Jun 2009 Location: Wonderland Posts: 11,535 (SuperPoster!) 14 1,318 hugs given	Mar 23, 2017 at 09:27 PM #3 13+? You say that like there's a chance guys give guestimations on their penis sizes! XD

Travelinglady Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Sep 2010 Location: North Carolina Posts: 47,993 (SuperPoster!) 13 22.9k hugs given	Mar 25, 2017 at 12:14 PM #7 I'm not sure there is a solution. Just make the best of what we have. MrBigD89, given you won't be able to change, then I suggest you follow suggestions like I gave. And please try not to obsess over it. (Men in porno flicks are known for being big. Not to suggest that you pursue that line of work....)

Sad Mermaid Veteran Member Member Since May 2016 Location: Sunnyvale Posts: 548 7 310 hugs given	Mar 29, 2017 at 08:08 PM #9 I prefer longer sizes. __________________ Dx: Bipolar I w/Psychotic Features Rx: Seroquel ER 550 mg, Depakote ER 1000 mg, Melatonin 6 mg, Atarax 50 mg.

Patagonia Grand Magnate Member Since Sep 2013 Location: In my own little world, NO trespassing! Posts: 4,660 10 77 hugs given	Mar 29, 2017 at 08:52 PM #10 Well if the OP finds carrying around 13+ inches "annoying" I'm assuming he's looking at plastic surgery? To say here "is that too big or not" is like a woman asking if her ***** looks too big. __________________ "Doubt is like dye. Once it spreads into the fabric of excuses you've woven, you'll never get rid of the stain." Jodi Picoult

gayleggg Legendary Wise Elder Community Liaison Member Since Apr 2013 Location: Texas Posts: 26,619 (SuperPoster!) 11 10.4k hugs given	Mar 30, 2017 at 01:30 PM #13 MrBigD, I had a fiancé once that was that size and it did scare me a little bit at first but it worked out fine. Lubrication is the key. __________________ Bipolar I, Depression, GAD Meds: Zoloft, Zyprexa, Ritalin "Each morning we are born again. What we do today is what matters most." -Buddha zaicy1@gmail.com

sabby Moderator Community Support Team Member Since Feb 2005 Location: Southwest of Northeast Posts: 33,346 (SuperPoster!) 19 6,304 hugs given	May 06, 2017 at 12:18 PM #14 Since the OP has not been back to comment, this thread is now being closed.