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Apr 13, 2017 at 07:22 PM
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I am a female, but I wear guy clothes, I feel like I am both female and male, and I prefer the term gender netrual. I am about 30 pounds overweight. I've already lost 65 pounds. I don't feel like my weight fits my self image and my personality. I want to lose weight, so I'll look more like a 12-14 year old boy, then a curvy women in my 20s. Is that weird? The last time I lost weight, I did look like a guy. I didn't have much of a figure. My hips disappeared. The only problem, is I have G size breasts. Which might be an issue. I'll probably get a breast reduction surgery, sometime in my life though. Although, I would prefer a mastectomy.
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Apr 14, 2017 at 08:31 PM
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I feel the same way, although I'm not actively losing weight at the moment. I think I'll have more motivation to begin if it might actually make me less curvy...
I haven't been wearing many guy's clothes recently because they just don't fit comfortably anymore, but I'd love to in the future. I also hear you on the breasts, even though mine are only DD's. They don't bother me all the time, but sometimes they do. I identify as gender fluid although I do often look very effeminate right now. My personality is pretty masculine though and I've never felt comfortable referring to myself as a "woman". Maybe female, referring to sex rather than gender. But yeah, you're definitely not the only one who feels that way. |
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