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Default Jun 12, 2017 at 04:28 AM
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Im just wondering does this make you bi sexual?

So Im been with my partner who is male for 8 years.
Before that I always been with men accept for one which was a girl on a online relationship.
But the online girl relationship, I was going to a all girl school and I was accused of being gay by one girl. Turns out she is gay or bi.

Anyway I find myself looking at lesbian porn.

I noticed there this one actress who is lesbian but dresses kinda like a man but not, more punkish,rock. But I like her style.

I dunno. Can someone help me?
I brought it up with my therapist and I kinda got a vibe he didn't like it and said would you leave your partner to go with woman? I said no and then he said "It doesn't matter"
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Default Jun 12, 2017 at 11:18 AM
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I identify as bisexual. I've been married to a man for over a decade, but I am equally attracted to men and women. I would sleep with a man, woman or even both at the same time. If I got divorced I would be open to dating a man or a woman.

How you choose to identify yourself is solely up to you. This is not something that anyone can define for you. I would say if you are attracted to both sexes, you certainly could call yourself bisexual, but if you don't want to that's okay too. There is no right or wrong.
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Default Jun 12, 2017 at 01:33 PM
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Would it be easier for you to say "I identify as bisexual" rather than "I am bisexual"? It is for me - saying I am asexual feels a little like I'm claiming ownership of something without asking or approval. So I say I identify as asexual and no one can find fault with that.
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Default Jun 12, 2017 at 04:30 PM
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I would say your not bi- sexual because you never really have committed the act of sexual pleasure with another woman.
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Default Jun 12, 2017 at 05:44 PM
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I would say your not bi- sexual because you never really have committed the act of sexual pleasure with another woman.


If that's the case, then everyone that's a virgin would be considered asexual. I'm pretty sure experience isn't required to consider someone straight.

How do you determine sexuality? What gender(s) are you attracted to? What gender(s) do you fantasize about? Even if someone is attracted to women doesn't mean they're going to act on it (could be religious pressures or lack of opportunities).
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Default Jun 13, 2017 at 07:02 AM
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Okay I can accept your opinion.
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Default Jun 14, 2017 at 01:27 PM
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I consider myself bisexual and I'm with a man I would happil date and have sexual relations with a woman if it came to it !
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