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Default Jun 14, 2017 at 10:21 PM
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My wife has been supporting me in my cuckolding fantasy for the past five years and we want to take this a little bit further by allowing her to sleep with black bulls but she is a bit worried. Can you please advice us?
Thank you, we will be both reading your comments on here.
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Default Jun 19, 2017 at 10:29 PM
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I'd put this question on FetLife. Not sure what you're looking for here

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Default Jun 22, 2017 at 11:30 AM
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I'd put this question on FetLife. Not sure what you're looking for here
no offense here but sexual fantasy stuff is allowed here in psych centrals sexual forum.. when people post things like their fetishes in this board I figure they are looking for help with that issue and how it helps or doesnt help their mental wellbeing. in the origianl poster they stated they have been engaging in this activity for years. that tells me that it helps them feel good about their selves in some way, enjoys the activity and i feel their post was very clear in what they are looking for here... help in taking it to the next level of adding the element of "black bull" to their sex life. Black bull in cockolding is when a male of female has rough sex with a very large black man while the other male or female is watching. a black bull sometimes is too large for some women. so again the original posters post tells me the wife may be scared that the "black bull" will be too big or too rough.. being scare during sex is a mental health issue for some. my opinion they do belong here and have posted in the right place.

for the original poster.... I have not engaged in this activity but do know some one who does. the first step in turning fantasy (mental imagery/ visualization,...) into real life is to go easy, have a code word. dont choose just anyone, choose someone you know and trust, and that you know engages in the same type of things that yours and your wifes fantasies include. example if you just blurted out to someone hey want to have a cuckold with us that person might think you are a pervert so feel out those you know already to see what their own interests are before throwing the idea at someone. then be clear on what is allowed and what isnt allowed and put it in writing with signatures. this way if things go bad you have some options open to you.

after you have all your rules, boundaries and code words in place go for it. size wise there are lubes and toys that can help, if at any time things dont feel right stop, address whats not right then if you choose to continue turning fantasy to reality try again.
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Default Jun 23, 2017 at 01:14 PM
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I really didn't hear what they're worried about? The sex? Any mental health issue? What?

If the question could be a bit more detailed in what they're asking then maybe we all could help.
Maybe that's why there aren't many replies....because the readers really don't know what question is being asked.
Directing them to a fetish site might be a bit more helpful then a MH site. Just my opinion

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Hi people,
My wife has been supporting me in my cuckolding fantasy for the past five years and we want to take this a little bit further by allowing her to sleep with black bulls but she is a bit worried. Can you please advice us?
Thank you, we will be both reading your comments on here.
Like... sorry curiosity has gripped me. Probably an odd choice of words I just used considering what I'm replying to. Black bulls though, is that slang for something, or are we speaking of actual male cows?
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Like... sorry curiosity has gripped me. Probably an odd choice of words I just used considering what I'm replying to. Black bulls though, is that slang for something, or are we speaking of actual male cows?
black bull is not slang and is not a male cow in cuckold sex.

Cuckold sex is the technical term for when there is at least 3 people, two are having sex and the third is forced to watch them.

black bull is the position name / technical term for the very large in every physical way, black man that is having sex with one of the people while the other person is forced to watch.

just like the term White Bull is the position name/ technical term for a very large in every physical way, white man that is having sex with one person and another is forced to watch them.

in short thats that cuckold sex is. one larger person is performing rough sex on another while a third person is forced to watch. in some cases it can border on rape in other cases it can be a gentle form of rough sex, but the key elements are a committed couple in a relationship and a very large third person. if that very large third person is black their position is called black bull and if they are white their position is called white bull.

(an easy way to think about this is take it out of sex act and into a sport, sports have their own position names. so does having sex with someone)
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