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Old 12-05-2017, 03:51 PM #11
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I donít even know if we can bring a third person in...I canít imagine dealing with him easily giving someone else an orgasm when I havenít experienced that. Or they both have an orgasm/enjoy it and then thereís me who would probably only be comfortable with myself touching me. Weíve talked about some way to do it, but we never figured it out. We kept thinking weíd wait until I could have an orgasm normally but that never happened and Iíve actually regressed on being comfortable being touched.
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I am able to be one on one with a woman as long as my husband can watch. Lol. An option you could explore if you don't want him to have contact with her.

I can imagine what you are feeling about orgasms. Don't blame yourself. I've had men who couldn't get me off even though they had no problems with other ladies.

Hopefully you will find a way to relax a little and that helps. Exploring your sexual side can be such an amazing experience. I hope you are able to find your calm place.
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Another part of the issue is that I've never been able to come to terms with my sexuality. I can't deny it anymore, nor am I confused, but I can't accept it.
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I'm sure it acceptance will come. It's a part of who you are. I can tell you that when you get there it will feel so good. Keep processing, you'll get there.
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