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Default Dec 31, 2017 at 06:49 AM
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I have this problem as well. Psych drugs make it very hard for me, even when masturbating.

Then with a partner I need to feel a strong level of trust. It is hard for me to be that intimate with just anyone.

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Default Dec 31, 2017 at 06:53 AM
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I have this problem as well. Psych drugs make it very hard for me, even when masturbating.

Then with a partner I need to feel a strong level of trust. It is hard for me to be that intimate with just anyone.
Damn psych drugs. I hate that they can have this side effect. I am sorry you experience the same. I've been on meds for so long I don't remember if they make it worse for me or not. I've asked my P doc to give me meds without sexual side effects though. As far as I recall, I've always had trouble. Maybe I am pent up.... maybe it's an emotional problem. I really don't know. I, too, need to feel trust with a partner, emotionally. It's early on still in my relationship (six weeks). So hopefully this will improve in time. Otherwise, I may need to bring toys into the mix, lol.
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Default Dec 31, 2017 at 05:03 PM
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Default Dec 31, 2017 at 05:39 PM
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toys have never worked for me, and I have been celibate since my divorce; I always climaxed at least 3 times; sex was the only good thing in the marriage....and oral sex....sent me to the moon!
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Default Jan 02, 2018 at 09:17 AM
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I'm back from the holiday. Thanks for all your comments! Well, things have improved in this department, I am happy to report. Guess I needed him to say something to kick me into gear or something. It's better so that's good.
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