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Question Jan 17, 2018 at 11:48 AM
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Okay, I'm going to put this here since it's affiliated with sexual desire.
Has there ever been a person or persons that you don't want to hear certain words that you like from a sexual point of view to come out of thier mouths?
For instance "Person A" who is you likes to hear "Don't Stop!" or "That feels amazing!" or maybe it can just be one word that you associate with sexual arousal and if "Person B or even some other particular person says these words then, you feel like you can't like hearing them any more.
Has anyone else ever experienced this before?
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Default Jan 20, 2018 at 10:45 PM
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I think I’m understanding what your saying so yes.
My SO has certain words that are a turn off.... but if another says them, yes there can be sexual arousal assoc with it.
Is that what you’re experiencing?

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Default Jan 25, 2018 at 02:58 AM
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Nope. I love all sex-talk. I love long sex-conversation. I don’t click with non-verbal sex partners.

Person A-through-Z, everything goes. Come to think of it, I guess that I always let that preference be known far before coitus; before making out, even. Or, maybe, during making out? Before nakedness?

Do youngsters still say “making out”?

My 60-year-old girlfriend has abs. She’s going to live to be 100. I’m may be dying before Valentine’s Day. Valentine’s Day makes me anxious. I’m okay with the $500 flower arrangement. I’m cool with the $500 chocolates. I can do the crappy-but-lovable home-made greeting card. But there must also be a gift... and that triggers my anxiety. I hate and loathe lingerie. Something leather. A new bit? What to give to your BDSM partner who has everything? A gift certificate for a long and elaborate shibari session followed by suspension and degradation?

I am so off-topic.

Final answer: no.

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