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Is "feel me" a lesbian term? For instance a woman wants her lover to manually stimulate her.
There is a term "feel her up". I am a male and most women ask or tell me to touch or rub. This particular woman had already orgasmed and she said, " you don't need to feel me". Any comments please. |
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you know how there are all kinds of fad sayings like there for a while everyone was saying the phrase "thats what I'm talking about" or heres an oldie from my siblings teen aged era... "sit and spin" meaning go.... yourself... well the phrase "feel me" and "dont feel me" is just a way for anyone to tell their sexual partner what they need.... like when a person wants a kiss they say kiss me or dont kiss me... well telling someone to feel me or dont feel me lets the other person know what they want. in intimate relationships its normal to tell each other what feels good or not, whether more touching is needed or not and so on. my suggestion is talk with the person who said this to you, they will be able to tell you why they were communicating with you on what they needed or didnt need after sex. |
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I was thinking, if she’d already orgasmed, her saying “you don’t need to feel me,” may mean not to feel or rub her clitoris.
After a clitoral orgasm the nerve endings are super stimulated & very sensitive. So maybe it means that she needs a break from touching or rubbing it afterwards....almost letting it cool down. Idk. Like AmandaLoiuse said it wouldn’t hurt to ask too. __________________ "Doubt is like dye. Once it spreads into the fabric of excuses you've woven, you'll never get rid of the stain." Jodi Picoult |
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I've never heard that term used in a sexual way. Urban dictionary says "Feel me is a term used to see if someone understands what you are talking about.
Example #1 Some guy: The absence evidence is not the evidence of absence, you feel me? Another guy: Yeah." |
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I agree with Butterfly here lol
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I'm with butterfly as well. Never heard of it used that way.
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If my friend Jeff and I doubled with my steady, Nancy, and Jeff’s date, Emily, I might say, after taking the girls home, “did ya get any?” “Ah,” he might reply, “she let me feel her up.” I do not believe - and I could be wrong - that any woman has said to me, “feel me.” I’ve heard “touch me” many times. More specific requests, certainly. I have never, never had any woman cum and then say, “you don’t need to feel me.” I have experienced having my head torn off by my hair, having my noggin clenched between Thighs of Steel and other manners that women have of acknowledging that one or two orgasms were sufficient and I Am Not Enjoying Such Intensity Now. Oh. “Tie me up.” Heard that a lot. Jeff’s dead now. Died in the 21st century, 2001. I don’t think that I’ve heard “feel her up” since 1972, maybe. Odd but interesting question. __________________ amicus_curiae Contrarian, esq. Hypergraphia Someone must be right; it may as well be me. I used to be smart but now I’m just stupid. —Donnie Smith— |
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Lol maybe Timothy Leary started it in the 1950-1960’s. Psyche drugs...?? Lol.
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I'm picturing saying this to my husband and its making me laugh. I mean to each their own, but I couldn't say it with a straight face.
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And then there’s that question that women inevitably ask, “how do I feel?” Usually asked during a time of extreme eroticism and answered in lurid detail. I mean if your answer is ”fine” you risk physical harm. Gosh. This topic could branch off so many new topics. “Have you ever...” sorts of subjects. “Have you ever broken a penis whilst over-exerting your cowgirl skills?” I’m gonna be the 21st-century’s Kinsey. __________________ amicus_curiae Contrarian, esq. Hypergraphia Someone must be right; it may as well be me. I used to be smart but now I’m just stupid. —Donnie Smith— Last edited by CANDC; Feb 09, 2018 at 11:53 PM.. |
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I think this is one of those times you need to see the forest to see the tree, meaning context matters.
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New phrases are created all the time- sometimes they catch on, sometimes they don't.
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Hum, I hear it all the time and it isn't something sexual at all. It means the same as " catch my drift " or " are you picking up what I'm laying down " ...are ya feeling me yet? Do you feel me ? Feel me? Different meaning for different regions perhaps.
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