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Feb 24, 2018 at 12:07 AM
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I'm female and ever since I can remember, I've been attracted to both men and women, aka I'm bisexual. However, I don't get turned on by watching lesbian porn. Only straight porn. If I don't like lesbian porn, but am attracted to naked women only doing straight sex, does that still make me bisexual?
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Feb 24, 2018 at 02:09 AM
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I wouldn't think it would matter much about putting a label on it
 try not to worry and just roll with it. I'm attracted to men and women and don't really like female porn either. Tbh I don't find women in porn videos that attractive as they're a bit too made up for me. I prefer a more natural look and an older woman which is probably why. Also I don't think a lot of lesbian porn is made by lesbians. Think it's more straight ladies and it's mostly directed at men!
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Feb 24, 2018 at 03:40 AM
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Feb 24, 2018 at 03:41 AM
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It wouldn't be what it was really like to be with a woman just like straight porn isn't anything like what it's like to be with a man! It's just entertainment
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Feb 24, 2018 at 04:18 AM
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There is genuine feminist and lesbian erotica that doesn't adopt the typical 'male gaze' of mainstream porn (look for stuff by Jennifer Lyon Bell for example)
There are also many shades of bi/pan sexuality anyway, sex doesn't fit into neat boxes |
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Feb 24, 2018 at 04:45 AM
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Feb 24, 2018 at 11:34 AM
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Yes, you are absolutely still bisexual. In fact, many straight women don't enjoy straight porn or enjoy it much less than gay porn(woman/woman or man/man).
The thing is that there's more to the visuals of porn than just the images of genitals and intercourse. There's usually a male gaze perspective, a patriarchal, objectifying perspective of the woman in the sex act, even when it's subtle, and your brain will pick up on it even if you don't. It's easy, as a woman, to be turned off by straight porn and a lot of the lesbian porn around. Personally, I'm bisexual(or pansexual) with what seems to be a slightly stronger preference for men. I find straight porn to be the least stimulating because of the stuff I mentioned above. The porn I watch most is in fact gay porn and it has nothing to do with my own sexuality. I also like lesbian porn made for queer women(by that I don't mean vanilla porn). |
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Feb 24, 2018 at 06:28 PM
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I'm a female. I consider myself straight but I watch lesbian porn. I've wondered before, if I'm bisexual. But in all honesty, I don't care what its called. Label Schmabel. I see myself with a guy, and am not attracted to women sexually in real life outside of fantasy. I thought this was weird until I googled it and I guess its not so uncommon. Regardless, I think sexuality in general is really interesting.
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Feb 25, 2018 at 02:14 AM
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I also have a preference for men. I'm with a man now and see myself being with a man for life. Women are more just a fantasy/idea. I get crushes on specific women that I know, but I need to know their personality first. With a man I can just be like "yeah he's hot. I like the look of him!"
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Feb 25, 2018 at 05:10 PM
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Feb 25, 2018 at 05:29 PM
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 but I mean I would have loved to have been with her given the opportunity but it would have been difficult and I'm not sure that's what I would have really wanted in the long term!
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