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Mar 19, 2018 at 02:43 PM
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Hi, I am new to this forum. I would like some advice or help please, A few nights ago I was on a night out and I got more drunk than I should have. I met a guy at the bar I was in and afterwards we went outside, we were kissing for awhile and now I am terrified we had sex (even though I am 99% sure we didn't) I suffer with OCD and anxiety my mind has really gone into overdrive with worry and fear that I'm pregnant. I feel sick with worry and I keep over thinking and analysing the night inmy head. I am a virgin too I just keep telling myself it's not on my nature to just do that but I am so worried I can't eat or sleep. I keep goggling things and I just cannot get a peace of mind. Please help?
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Mar 20, 2018 at 10:43 AM
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 Do you have a friend you can talk to? This is so important to do to help you with your worries and all the other emotions these things trigger.When you get your period, you will stop worrying as much.  In the meantime, if you have not gotten your period 2 weeks after this encounter, at that point you could pick up a cheap pregancy test to calm your fears. Did you blackout? If you did then your fears are quite rational. I can relate to going through these things over and over again in my head. Hang in there. It will calm down eventually. 
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Mar 20, 2018 at 01:51 PM
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My period is due in 11 days until than all I can do is worry. Thanks I'll try...the thing is too the more I read the more I possibly imagine I have those systems and it freaks me out. |
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Mar 22, 2018 at 05:03 AM
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I assume that your gut feeling is correct about nothing having happened but if it did--these things have happened to so many back to the beginning of time. Our sexual impulses can be really strong and when we are young we are not comfortable with it. When you get in the right relationship (whether short or long term)--that will all change for you. Is your sister older or younger? If she is older--something like this could have happened to her. These things are not uncommon for people who drink a lot and are in certain situations (like going to bars or being on Spring Break at a beach where drinking is allowed). It is normal for a woman to worry about this because a pregnancy can change her entire life. I am glad you are at least talking about it here. I put myself in similiar situations in college. Looking back, I wish I had drunk less alcohol than I did.  You are not alone.
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