Hard to find women who like women

Hi I haven't been in here in forever. I'm in a situation I don't know what to do. What do u do when you meet a woman who is bi friendly meaning she only likes **** but doesn't mind women going down on me? Or I'm bi occasionally like wtf! I did get clarification of what they mean I told this woman whom I'm friends with benefits with her man that it's not fair my needs have to still be put last I don't do partial sex.

That's what I explained to them. I don't get why women make it so difficult to even have a relationship with. It's like this either u like women or not this is why lesbians don't dig no women too much drama. I'm very real I want a woman to be into me it has to work both ways. Funny I can get a drunk girl in a bar but trying to find what I want there's a laundry list oh I don't have sex with girls but I do let them go down on me. Also women put demands on me like a guy no that doesn't work on me.

I had relationships with guys big deal any woman can get a guy. I'm interested in certain men they have to get my attention but I'm all 4 the women. I get along with lesbians on this subject but when they know i still sleep with guys conversation is over nevermind a relationship! I do what I want I make my own choices as who I wanna date/sleep with I don't use labels. If i had my way I'd have more relationships with girls than guys.

Anyway I don't know what to think. I asked myself why did lgbt marriage and rights passed yet as women we still can't find each other attractive? I don't like a laundry list of excuses. Anyway I just needed to vent.

hi Ladytiger,

As you know firsthand, sexual relationships can be very complicated.
Some groups are very hard on bisexuality, as you know. They feel a person has to be straight or gay. I have never understood the reasoning.
I hope you find companionship in a way which suits you.


WC

Hi. I agree like no such thing as a middle ground. Lesbians want a woman who wants a woman not something half was which I agree with them. They complain I still sleep with guys so what who I sleep with shouldn't be their concern but they use penis against me.

I want a relationship but I'm not finding that right now. I'm having sexy fun with another woman. I just don't want to compromise my wants 4 something I may get less of ya know? I never heard of bi occasional before sounds so cheesy. I can go without a penis just fine.