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Folder icon "Bait and switch" tactics with escorts. Do you walk off or do you stay?

View Poll Results: If you came across an escort who lied about his or her photos, what would you do?
I'm okay with his or her lying. I would stay. I guess I'll need the sexual relief. 0 0%
I'm okay with his or her lying. I would stay. I guess I'll need the sexual relief.
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No way would I stay. It's deceptive advertising. I'd head away again. 0 0%
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Sometimes, you may hook up with a girl online who claims to have a profile about herself. You arrive, and it becomes apparent that it ain't actually her, or something. What would you do next? Would you stay, or just leave again?
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I am a girl myself and have not used escorts, but to answer your question, I would evaluate based on what I see - if you like her, you stay, and if you do not like her, you do not. Your poll does not include that option.
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I almost walked off one time, but I ended up staying. What a mistake. The girl looked nothing like her picture, but since it was cheap I ended up going for it.

The experience was so uninteresting I kept eyeing the Xbox the escort had on her table. I was more interested in the Xbox.

As a sidenote, goodbye Backpage. You will be missed.
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Default Mar 26, 2018 at 01:09 AM
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I don't use escorts, but one would think that if the real thing isn't as advertised, then the obvious thing would be to not waste time nor money on it. Right?

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I also have never used an escort, but if I found her attractive I would at least give it a shot. If she was not attractive to me I would leave. Superficial? Totally, but you're paying for it.
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Maybe you should spend the money on a well known, reputable escort service.

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Did anyone vote?
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Nope. Didn't see a poll. Lol.
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I don't really see them much anymore. Why? Well, it's a massive waste of money, I wasn't enjoying myself in any case, and they don't care about you in the least. They just pretend to for your money, but make no mistake about it: I don't think they are into you at all...
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They do it for money so why would you think they’d care about you? They don’t know you.
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I've never used an escort service, but as a woman I don't really need to.
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I don't use escorts, but one would think that if the real thing isn't as advertised, then the obvious thing would be to not waste time nor money on it. Right?
Right! Wasting your time and dough!
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That’s funny! They must know that the guys who are expecting the girl in the photo will have sex with the substitute anyway.

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How does on even find an escort these days? All the websites they were listed on have gone dark thanks to Congress. I knew I waited to long before testing the waters

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How does on even find an escort these days? All the websites they were listed on have gone dark thanks to Congress. I knew I waited to long before testing he waters"Bait and switch" tactics with escorts. Do you walk off or do you stay?
I abhor the use escorts for the soul reason that they are prone to using underage girls. This is part of the bigger problem of sex trafficking and sex slavery. It's a great thing such sites are now offline because of this reason.

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I abhor the use escorts for the soul reason that they are prone to using underage girls. This is part of the bigger problem of sex trafficking and sex slavery. It's a great thing such sites are now offline because of this reason.


With everything now offline the government just made this industry more dangerous. They’ve also lost all leads in sex trafficking cases. Bravo!

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Sorry, my post may have been insensitive. I should have stated only the sites where everyone seemed to be of legal age. I know sites such as Backpage and Craigslist and no telling how many others were likely allowing trafficking to occur.

I feel it should be legalized and monitored, but that is another topic.

I hope I didn't offend anyone.

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Lots of independent escorts! Phone #'s in papers etc..
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Default Apr 30, 2018 at 09:09 PM
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Let me take that back. I would not want to do something with someone when all they want is $!!
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They do it for money so why would you think they’d care about you? They don’t know you.
Well, some aren't that respectful in general. But some are okay. It just depends.
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