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Apr 29, 2018 at 08:22 PM
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I'm sick of feeling ashamed to talk about it here (my own sexual issues). I'm sick of feeling badly and not wanting to be seen. I ****ing LOVE sex. I need sex. I do believe that it is a need, and that being in a relationship is also a need for some people, like me. I'd really like to have sex. Like, on consistent basis. I am also learning patience, and how to lead a pretty awesome life, whether that happens or not.
I have no one to talk to about this. Thoughts of sex have dominated my mind all weekend about my teacher. I don't even want to go back to class. I'm not sure it's the right fit for me right now? And on top of other factors, I'm too embarrassed that I also have a huge hot crush on him. It just feels like a lot. I don't want to go back to class. I just want to run away. I think I deserve good sex. I also think I deserve to not feel embarrassed about it around people who I really actually like and am interested in and who turn me on. I get so shy. They don't even know I'm interested. I think I need to rewire myself. Its going to take time though. Last edited by FooZe; Apr 30, 2018 at 06:20 PM.. Reason: bleeped a cussword |
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Apr 30, 2018 at 09:59 AM
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Haha, I can relate. I get distracted thinking about sex pretty frequently, but the worst part is definitely being too shy to do anything about it (although this is probably for the best in my case). My boyfriend thinks it's funny and cute but it's so frustrating... Probably a bit TMI, but my point is that you are definitely not alone.
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Apr 30, 2018 at 10:04 AM
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Me too - it's nice to feel loved but incredibly frustrating not to be able to reach out to people
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Apr 30, 2018 at 11:17 AM
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Thank you everyone for the support.
  And thanks Eelsauces I think it's great to have a sense of humor about it!! May even go back to the class and just not expect anything but to learn and have fun And awkwardness. I will expect that to, because...I am me, and this is the world, LOL.
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Apr 30, 2018 at 12:07 PM
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Hi Star! Like yourself, I " ADORE SEX", LOLOL! Consistent as well! Drives are different, alot of influences tell us," have sex have sex", but in reality, those desires have to be channelled in correct ways. If not, can get all of us in heaps of trouble! Soz....there are ways to " have fun" without feeling bad/ ashamed, etc. Are you in your 20's? College? - I'd love to help!
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Apr 30, 2018 at 02:34 PM
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I LOVE that you said that 1.) society is always saying "have sex!!" It's so true, and annoying. Especially the media. and 2.) YES. I have thought about this before, TOO. CHANNELING my sexual feelings (Into sexual healing! lol). I think making things (like art, crafts) helps, distractions, being in nature, being around others, dressing sexy, etc. Oh and then of course, there's the good old masturbation thingie. If you have any more ideas on how to channel my feelings, or distract myself from the anxiety over this class, let me know. |
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Apr 30, 2018 at 02:41 PM
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Could I pm ya? Lol!( about sexual healing..but its important too)! Overall health/ mental state!( I'm over 35 lol)!
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Apr 30, 2018 at 02:56 PM
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Mmmmm! Sounds great, starry!( It would be a turn on knowing someone thought you( in general) were " hot enough" to have Good sex with! Nothing wrong at all with sex! Anything " channelled" in right, good ways, is( as long as it doesn't hurt others) great!!( ESPECIALLY Sex!!
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Apr 30, 2018 at 03:10 PM
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I'm not sure I can give good advice as I'm extroverted and not shy at all about sex. Lol. I just wanted to say enjoy that crush feeling. Enjoy those sex fantasies. Don't be embarrassed about it. It's natural. Sex is absolutely awesome. No shame in that. :-)
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Apr 30, 2018 at 04:17 PM
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Sad! Wow! Yes..Sex is awesome and WHAT A WAY for relief( in many ways)! But as with everything? Moderation.
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