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Hi folks,
I've been struggling to move past some feelings from childhood and adolescence. Over the last three years I've been going therapy to address those and some other issues, but I've only ever discussed these problems with 3 people, and I'd like to get perspective from a wider, educated audience. I had a high amount of sexual curiosity from a young age (5ish), but was made to feel like these types of feelings and thoughts were taboo: they seemed to make the adults I talked with uncomfortable (they would often push off conversations) and I ended up feeling these were bad subjects.
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I have wanted to understand what caused these thoughts/feelings/actions and know if they were very abnormal/wrong for a long time. The problem is that I feel that this is a very emotional subject that prompts many people (at least in North American culture) to have knee-jerk reactions and instantly shame a person, hence why I haven't really talked much about it before. I've told my girlfriend and she's been very supportive and understanding. I'm sure they have had profound impacts on my mental/emotional/sexual health (I struggle with anxiety and depression regularly). I hope I can have some open dialog with people in this forum and find some resolution in my mind Mike Last edited by atisketatasket; Aug 14, 2018 at 10:11 PM.. Reason: added triggers |
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Hi I'm in NA too. Could you be more specific? It might help you get some feedback. It's kinda hard to understand exactly what you mean. Do you just mean you don't understand why you were aware of your sexuality ( like in general) at such a young age? Or something more specific?
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what we can do is tell you whether we have had the same problems and what we did about them that helped ourselves..... I had childhood abuse happen to me. so as a young adult I did question my interest in things. my own doctors pointed me to things like books on the human body and brain, college biology classes, psychology books and classes. these things helped me to understand how and why the human body and brain functions the way it does.I also talked with my mental health therapists on these issues in relation to my childhood/ past/ my thoughts and behaviors. this gave me understanding on how and why I was the way I was and what to do to help myself through these things. my suggestion is contact your treatment providers. they will be able to help you to understand how and why your thoughts and behaviors on this subject are/ were the way they are/ were. another suggestion check with area colleges on biology classes and psych classes that may help you to understand how and why the body and brain works. another suggestion visit your local library, they may have some documentaries and other informative books that can help you to understand the human sexuality and how it applies to you and your childhood. |
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