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Default Oct 16, 2018 at 02:51 PM
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Nobody ever really talks about it, but I suspect it's quite common in this day and age. Whether it be with a partner or internet friend or whomever.

Any thoughts on the impact on mental health, if any? I think it can be a huge source of stress relief and relaxation. However for some people it might be uncomfortable. I guess it also is like real life in whether or not you are emotionally invested.

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Default Oct 17, 2018 at 04:34 PM
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As long as it's between consenting adults, cyber sex can be a great way to share your sexuality with another person, especially for those who have been in a long term relationship with a significant other. Cyber sex can just be another tool in your bag of tricks to keep your relationship fresh and exciting. When it comes to sex, nothing is off the table so long as it's between consenting adults.
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Default Oct 22, 2018 at 09:15 AM
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Is cyber sex the same as sexting, roleplaying/describing acts? I've never really seen the appeal of it and it doesn't do much for me. Even in a relationship it feels awkward and I avoid it. It's like the anxiety of sex and spontaneous creative-writing, without any of the pleasure of sex. Maybe if my partner and I were talented writers of erotica it would actually be hot, but my experience with it is mostly half-assed strangers on hookup apps saying variants of "I'm gonna do [basic sex act] to you"

What kind of things are you supposed to say? (you don't have to get detailed, i just don't understand the usual format or back-and-forth conversation)
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Default Feb 23, 2019 at 01:31 AM
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Is cyber sex the same as sexting, roleplaying/describing acts? I've never really seen the appeal of it and it doesn't do much for me. Even in a relationship it feels awkward and I avoid it. It's like the anxiety of sex and spontaneous creative-writing, without any of the pleasure of sex. Maybe if my partner and I were talented writers of erotica it would actually be hot, but my experience with it is mostly half-assed strangers on hookup apps saying variants of "I'm gonna do [basic sex act] to you"


What kind of things are you supposed to say? (you don't have to get detailed, i just don't understand the usual format or back-and-forth conversation)
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To write erotica just take your mind out of the everyday and imagine . Not just the act of sex but what leads up to it. What kind of things that would feel good if you got the chance to try them.
The anticipation of something is sometimes all it takes without all the wham bam.
But then again it can be turned around and describing fast sex might be the thing that does it .
But a simple glance over the table and a toe run up his leg might be enough for someone to start filling in the gaps of a story.

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Default Feb 23, 2019 at 07:49 PM
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Nobody ever really talks about it, but I suspect it's quite common in this day and age. Whether it be with a partner or internet friend or whomever.


Any thoughts on the impact on mental health, if any? I think it can be a huge source of stress relief and relaxation. However for some people it might be uncomfortable. I guess it also is like real life in whether or not you are emotionally invested.


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Ppl sometimes cant differentiate between real and imaginary. What you would like to do against what you cant do

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Ppl sometimes cant differentiate between real and imaginary. What you would like to do against what you cant do
Against what you can and cant do .

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