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Default Dec 09, 2018 at 12:36 AM
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I don't hate sex but I'm turned off by most men where I live.mostly because at least once a week I get sexually harassed by guys on public transit.i am only attracted to one guy & we are just friends.i am lonely but don't want to have sex with the type of guys that bother me & other women on the metro link.would sign up for online dating but some of the type guys from public transit contacted me on dating apps like plenty of fish & where being creepy to me on the apps to

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You're not alone in that!
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Default Dec 09, 2018 at 04:13 PM
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You're not alone in that!
LOL same here. Does my ... toy... count?
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5 years for me
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Default Dec 09, 2018 at 08:09 PM
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I have only had sex 2 times in my entire life; once was with a prostitute and the other was with a woman I was dating (we met online but met up in person as she was only a state away) who turned out to be using me for my hacking knowledge.

Can't attract women to save my life. Oh well, I have pr0n for days haha
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Default Dec 09, 2018 at 08:13 PM
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It's hard to find a man who knows how to please a woman (at least it has been hard for me). Guys I've been with have mostly been clueless (either that or they just don't care. Hard to say). I finally found a guy who does try, but for me toys usually work better. Might be something for you to consider. Casual sex with strangers doesn't usually do it for most women.
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. Guys I've been with have mostly been clueless (either that or they just don't care. Hard to say).
Yup. To me it seems they just don't care.

I often wonder what happened. Ok sure fine lets just go with me being repulsive. But I know so many women that IMHO aren't and it seems no one is ever interested in them. Do men over a certain age just change? Is there only a certain type of women that is attractive to guys over a certain age?
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Yup. To me it seems they just don't care.
THEY!? Turn the tables & such a line of reasoning would be considered incredibly sexist. Some of us happen to be caring, giving, "magicians" in bed.
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THEY!? Turn the tables & such a line of reasoning would be considered incredibly sexist. Some of us happen to be caring, giving, "magicians" in bed.

Not to come across as sexist because I don't want to start any fights or anything but there are also some of us guys who aren't good at pleasing women sexually or otherwise.

I can't get a girlfriend or even get laid to save my life. I find women in general confusing and hard to understand not to mention a bit intimidating. Reading this thread makes me realize that I will most likely never get a women at this point.

Oh well, thank Cuthulu for pron haha
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