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Old 02-27-2019, 03:28 PM #1
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Default Any other pornosexuals here?

I don't know if that's a proper word or not. I made it up - pornosexual. I haven't touched anyone in years. I just watch a lot of porn. And I think it's better than the real thing overall. Aren't there a lot of negative outcomes with real sex?
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Default Re: Any other pornosexuals here?

I guess the word would be voyeur (or at least it's a form of voyeurism - ie enjoying watching sex), which probably should be considered a perfectly legit sexual orientation as long as between consenting adults (or in this case consenting performers).

For myself, I miss physical contact and affection but the sexual aspects of relationships (as well as the attachment aspects) are too difficult for me to cope with usually so it's better than nothing.
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Default Re: Any other pornosexuals here?

I get you. I haven't been with anyone in years, as well; and AI also watch a lot of porn. For a while I feared that I had an addiction, but then I determined that I don't feel a need to watch it. I just like it a lot, and it is so much easier to just get off without all the prep work and logistics of actually hooking up. (Though I have no issue with that either . . . just haven't in a long time.)

(And I love your username, by the way. We can always use some ace rimmers!)

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Default Re: Any other pornosexuals here?

I just prefer the intimacy of human contact, whether or not sex is involved.
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Default Re: Any other pornosexuals here?

To me porn is just a way of relieving sexual tensions. Its not sex at all.
You canít compare porn with ďrealĒ sex. Sure itís a hell of a lot less complicated than being with someone. But itís just so ď empty ď of all the things that make us human. All the feelings and emotions. I want to be human. Like was said , I need the physical touch etc..... But I believe there is a place for it . As long as you donít get addicted and thatís all you do.
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Default Re: Any other pornosexuals here?

I don't find porn appealing, but I masturbate without it. I have found much more pleasure in that than in actual sexual interaction. I think a lot of men are clueless about how to please women.
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I don't find porn appealing, but I masturbate without it. I have found much more pleasure in that than in actual sexual interaction. I think a lot of men are clueless about how to please women.
Hi DownandLonely. Did you ever try communicating your specific wants and needs with male partners? I think that's essential except in rare cases where two people just automatically click sexually.
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I don't know if that's a proper word or not. I made it up - pornosexual. I haven't touched anyone in years. I just watch a lot of porn. And I think it's better than the real thing overall. Aren't there a lot of negative outcomes with real sex?
Is it okay to ask what you did not like about sex?
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