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Red face Mar 30, 2019 at 08:48 AM
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99.99% of porn doesn't interest me. So I spend most of my porn time scrolling.

Porn needs to have some sort of interesting story, and I lose interest once it devolves into explicit sexual visuals. I'm more interested in the relationship between the two people, especially if the female is dominant in a gentle way. Her personality and attitude is the most important thing for me. I'm not turned off by shots of genitalia, but the use of them doesn't particularly interest me, next to the dynamic between the actors.

I don't know what this makes me, probably a masochist of some sort, or a submissive. Or maybe it means I'm a bit androgynous. Most men I assume are into regular explicit 'boring' porn where a man and a woman just meet and conveniently have sex for no particular reason other than they're both idiots.
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I think that's a good problem to have.
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You might be a demosexual or something along those lines. There's nothing wrong with it, there are many people who do not feel immediate desires when seeing a person and who need some quality time together or special situations and relations and roles to feel a desire for physical intimacy. I, too, get turned on by "the story" and my fantasies about it and feel completely bored when looking at sexual scenes alone. So, for me normal movies are actually much more sexual than porn
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