Sexually frustrated!!!

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Question_Mark said:
I'd never judge others concerning their decisions...
I only need to talk about it before it drives me nuts.

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<font color="purple"> ((((((( HUGS ))))))) ~ ~ ~ ~ ((((((( HUGS ))))))) </font>

I feel for you really I do - for no one should be alone in matters of the heart.


And please know that when I said:
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Rhapsody said:
While on the subject - May I say......... We are LOVED right Where WE are (no if's or's or but's).

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I was just letting every one know that they are LOVED by GOD right where they are......... no judging being done by any one insinuated.


I will PM you some thing - Maybe it might work / help.

I am sexually frustrated too! I am a man who is attracted to men. I am 41 years old and have been out since my teens. I am frustrated because I have found out one horrible thing in life: the gay community is not conducive to monagamy. I don't want short term only sexual lovers and I certainly don't want an open relationship. Those gay men who can tolerate short term relationships and or open relationships came from families that were separated or divorced. Also many gay men cannot love another man truely because of feelings of rejection from their youth. My parents have been together all their life until my father died. My mother remains a widow. My parents did not neglect me. So I am frustrated because I know how to love but their are no gay men who are able to be loving and caring due to their past experiences. I cannot except the gay lifestyle. So now I am going to be working with my therapist on how to cope with this. I am learning to love myself now and enjoy my own company. I know that at times I want the intimacy, but I am only cheating myself and getting hurt when I am with a man who wants to have as many men as he can.

why cover something you are??

Be what you want to be and be with who you want to be...that's what I say knowing it's easier said then done...but you know.

Finding a good man is probably just as hard as finding a good woman, so even straight women could relate here.

Your God should love you either way, despite how you love....or so I hope???

I`ll back up Rapsody and youOme

"Against God"

Who told you that? How do you KNOW for 100 percent that God is "against?"

You want to follow RELOGION...but in regards to what God says....

I personally comletely agree..GoD LOVES you are you are.
Everyhting you are going throigh is included in the journey of yoru soul That`s why it`s with our body.

Why should God be against or for something> anyhting?

hugs

Just wanted to throw out a reminder that everyone has their own religious beliefs. This can be a sticky topic when it comes to sexual issues, so lets all remember to respect the OP's religious belief and offer support in line with that.

Thanks,
Rayna

yes...the only problem is that religion forbids such things.

And then come the dilema..and the fear of God..i too have my own religious beliefs...now i becale far more spiritual than religious though..........

It might be considered a dilema for some, but belief for others. Religious discussion other than what the topic of the thread calls for may be discussed in Sanctuary for Religious Support.

Thanks,
Rayna

I also like being with girls I go online Craiglist is a good one it is free. I also go on website there is one called bisexual play ground and sexsearch is the one my husband I a both look at the three later you do have to pay for to get any real results.