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Crazy Nov 08, 2019 at 10:19 PM
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I have no idea what to do!

I am sexually frustrated all the time! I relieved myself several times today and my libido is still going strong. I feel like I'm going mad ): I've never been with anyone before in any kind of sexual relationship or even romantic. Because of my upbringing and how it shaped me I guess you can say I am a LATE bloomer. I lost most of my late teens and twenties to depression and anxiety, and am now 27 trying to unlearn a lifetime of unhealthy and distorted thinking, which leaves it particularly hard to try and jump into the dating scene. I have a lot of inner work to do before I can feel secure to seriously put myself out there, but that leaves me how I am now, perpetually keyed up and masturbating just isn't really cutting it anymore.

Please suggestions, advice, wisdom. All our welcome to reply!

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I would suggest finding a good therapist and ideally one with experience in this area.

As well I think trying a casual date here and there is a good start. Perhaps an online site to meet someone (with safety precautions of course like public place and someone knowing where you are, etc). But go out with zero expectations. Consider them practice dates and if you aren't ready or don't like the person, there is zero obligation to go out again.
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