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Elder
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Apr 23, 2008 at 05:59 PM
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How many of you have ever been in or would consider being in a threesome?
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Magnate
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Apr 23, 2008 at 08:04 PM
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i put would like to try it out but only under certain circumstances. if im with someone in a commited relationship - no way. that would definately cause too many problems and i know myself to well to think i could handle that. but if it were just a one night thing i would definately consider it.
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Elder
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Apr 23, 2008 at 08:10 PM
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me and my wife have enough extra pounds to qualify for a threesome
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Elder
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Apr 23, 2008 at 08:41 PM
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LOL HA HA HA
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Apr 24, 2008 at 02:35 AM
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I used to think I would like to try it but to be honest since I have been with my husband the thought has never occured to me.
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Apr 24, 2008 at 11:26 AM
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The idea of it sounds hot to me but I'm probably too much of a chicken to ever really go thru with it. I wouldn't know what to do. Plus I'm married, so that kind of throws a wrench in it...I doubt he'd want to.
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Wise Elder
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Apr 24, 2008 at 11:43 AM
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IMO - I think we all fantasize about this kind of sexual adventure a time or two in our life....... but doing it is some thing else all together.
I will stick to my fantasy - as it is probably better than the real thing. |
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Location: NY
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Apr 24, 2008 at 11:59 AM
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Brian37 said: me and my wife have enough extra pounds to qualify for a threesome </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> hahaha i loved that..and i know what you mean. hahaha 
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Poohbah
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Apr 24, 2008 at 01:22 PM
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I have been in one (a long long time ago) and ya know, over rated.
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Legendary
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Apr 24, 2008 at 08:56 PM
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highly over rated! too many to please hehe
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Grand Member
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Apr 24, 2008 at 10:52 PM
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I did it twice....I think I'm too easily triggered by that kind of stuff. It just felt too much like being raped.
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Grand Poohbah
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Apr 27, 2008 at 01:13 PM
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Honestly, I would like to give it a go but it would have to be with another girl, too many issues to try with another guy....but either way hubby says a firm NO and thinks I am sick for even suggesting such a thing... He says he does not have that fantasy at all... just as well b/c it would go against my faith...and I struggle enough with that...
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Grand Member
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Apr 27, 2008 at 05:46 PM
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Been there and done that...before marriage, of course.
It was awkward. If you do it I recommend doing it with people you feel very comfortable with. Make sure you communicate what you want from the experience first. |
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Magnate
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Apr 28, 2008 at 10:23 PM
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Been there, done that...would only do it again if I knew the person for a long time and trusted them as I did the first time I did it.
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Elder
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May 01, 2008 at 05:48 PM
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I find a lot of these answers interesting. I cannot understand a hetro male being repulsed by the idea of having 2 women at once. I would relish and fully embrace the challange of giving pleasure to two women at the same time. I have tried to talk my wife into it but so far she is resolutely against it. Understand that in that area that my endurance( for reaons that would be TMI) exceeds hers and I am never satisfied with the act itself . I love to give pleasure, and crave the reactions I get from using the right kind of touch or pressing the hot buttons perfectly. Oh well its not in the cards for me. all this energy and no outlet... alas
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Grand Magnate
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May 01, 2008 at 06:13 PM
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Each to their own Timgt5....but other than the superficial ego trip being entertained by the act(s),,it seems to this middle aged man to be like mining for gold in a sandbox...
Everything I would ever need is in the imagination and wonderfull design of one confident, curious and gentle woman...there is the gold....may I be equal to it's shine... More is not always better,,actually I would think that with the emotional triggers embedded within the biological orgasm are more intrinsic to a deeply connected bond. However I am humble enough to admit that there is much about the world of pure sex that eludes me.... I am sorry that your endurance leaves you so unsatisfied. Maybe a small mini marathon before intimate relations would help. I hope your wish is granted...but be carefull with wishes... Lenny __________________ I have only one conclusion,,and that is things change too quickly for me to draw them.... Sobriety date...Halloween 1989. I was plucked from hell...and treat this gift as if it is the only one... |
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Elder
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May 01, 2008 at 06:40 PM
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I did this a couple of times when I was younger, and believe me Tim - it's NOT about the man and his 'skills'... as much as I'm sure you'd like to think it would be...
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Elder
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May 02, 2008 at 04:34 AM
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Good response, Lenny, very inciteful, and a good suggestion about the mini marathon. I appreciate the respect you show for my perspective as well, thank you
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Elder
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May 02, 2008 at 04:36 AM
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Interesting insight and perspective, thank you
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Grand Member
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May 02, 2008 at 11:53 PM
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Yeah...I agree with LMo...there are more important things involved than skill. I could seriously care less about if a man can make me orgasm or what he can do...it's just being able to bond with me on a deeper level...and that should be private...no audience needed. lol
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