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Jun 24, 2008 at 08:01 PM
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ok...I love my guy..he is a great man..he just can't hold it back....we have this stop and wait ...thing.... going on. It makes it hard to stay in the mood..when everytime it starts feeling good..he has to stop...any advice?
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Grand Poohbah
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Jun 24, 2008 at 10:07 PM
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Can you explain the stop-and-wait thing??
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Jun 25, 2008 at 10:55 AM
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Oh, my, do I know what your going through! I've been with my husband for 10 years and I'm finally realizing I don't think I'm going to be able to put up with this anymore! We've tried everything and noting seems to help! I never thought I would care so much about sex, but I guess you don't realize how much it matters until your not sexually fulfilled. I wish you luck though, just because we can't figure it out, doesn't mean you won't.
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Jun 25, 2008 at 10:58 AM
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Tinna said: we have this stop and wait ...thing.... going on. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> I, like balish,,am confused and interested.. What is this? Does he have fantasies of being a crossing guard? Lenny __________________ I have only one conclusion,,and that is things change too quickly for me to draw them.... Sobriety date...Halloween 1989. I was plucked from hell...and treat this gift as if it is the only one... |
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Jun 25, 2008 at 11:02 PM
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Stop and wait...during sex ...we are always having to take a break...because he is...always about to cum. I love him so much...I would never leave him...what can I do...to help his problem?
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Jun 26, 2008 at 04:05 PM
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Let him know that you still need to be stimulated while he's taking his break. Suggest a condom, that may be enough to let him last a bit longer or numbing cream and a condom (numbing cream without a condom will numb you too).
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