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Default Jun 26, 2008 at 06:13 AM
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I seem to be getting sexually frustrated lately because my partner just doesn't really do a whole lot. Don't get me wrong as for I am still very sexually attracted to him, however it just seems to be almost like a routine. I have even gone as far as to try to talk him into being more spontaneous or to even consider trying new positions but he just doesn't seem that interested. It seems as though I do all the work while he just lays there and while he always has his orgasm, on most occasions I do not and have to stop because he can't continue after this. Any suggestions as to how I might bring back the romance and excitement to our sex life? or is this just a lost cause?
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Default Jun 26, 2008 at 12:52 PM
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sexual frustration could be a sign not that you're not physically attracted to your partner, which you are....it could be the communication between you two is off, the emotional connection, the mental connection, conversations, quality time versus down time, how is it for you two in these areas?

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Default Jun 27, 2008 at 03:49 AM
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I am in a similar position and possibly we can help each other. In my case it is my wife. Perhaps if you can help me to understand what she needs to get motivated I can help you understand your husband. Just a thought.
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I have part of your problem. My H has a lot more interest in sex than I do. Unfortunately his interest doesn't alway enable him to perform even for his own gratification forget about mine. Either he is upset because he wants it and I don't, or he is upset because he gets it and then is unable to perform, or I get frustrated because I feel like either way I'm just a humping doll. I am in a no win situation. No matter what the out come is one or both of us is left frustrated.

Keebler it is good that you are still looking for ways to bring things back. I hope you can find something that works for you.

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